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Sex is just awful for me! Help!

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Question - (18 August 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 18 August 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

im 16.. iv been to the docter i have no diseases or infections, me and my boyfriend have had sex over maby 30 times.. pretty much every time we have intercourse it hurts its like a irretated feeling an alittle burning sumtimes it hurts really bad an somtimes its just alittle can anybody help me or give me some advise please please please also i cant have orgasms i dont think i evenn get close whitch suxx an its not my boyfreind he does alot of 4 play.. but sumtimes when hes fingerinf me it hurts like hes pressing to hard idk sex just SUX to me an its really bothering me cus some of my friends have sed its great please help it seems this problem is never going away :[

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009):

could you possibly have a latex allergy?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009):

Well. first you need to go to a book store, and get one of those sex books, to help you. you need to be more relaxed and get to know your body. touching yourself in a very relaxed mode will help you find enjoyment out of sex. explore your own body, before someone else does. your only 16 and need to know your own body and what works for you before other can please you. ky jelly helps, but your body should be relaxed and turned on to produce fluids naturally. I hope this helps, there alot of great books out there.. good luck.

Making love is a wonderful thing, and remember safe sex! birthcontrol and condoms.

from a mother of 3

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

yes he has.. an thanks ill try that hopfully it helps

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A female reader, jstdunno United States +, writes (18 August 2009):

Go to scarleteen.com for great advice.

Get your boyfriend to be more gentle , use lubrication like KY Jelly.

You're unlikely as a woman to orgasm from intercourse/fingering. You'll need clitoral stimulation. Oral sex is a great way! And play with your own body and see what feels good and don't be afraid to pass this info on to your boyfriend

Right now get him to stop if it's hurting. Don't do anything that feels unpleasant. Do some research , get in touch with your own body,relax and enjoy your sex life. Oh and make sure you use protection at all times!

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (18 August 2009):

RAINORFIRE agony auntyou might need more lube try some ky or whatever is on the market theese days. is your bf getting checked for stds aswell

You should try diffrent positions and clitoral stimulation if you want to orgasm.

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