We're arguing and not seeing each other as much

A female age 30-35, *ovesagiftkeepitsafe writes:

me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3/4 years now and we both love each other very much. but recently we have been arguing about not seeing each other as much as id like to see him more than once a week. he works nights as a cleaner and i used to go round at the weekends. I have now recently got a job and its days in the week and night time saturday. what makes things hard now. Im a bit confused on how to deal with this as we didnt see each other enough in the first place and now its going to be ever harder, he dont put much effourt into comming to see me and it was always me that went round his. how can i explain that if we want to stay together we need to meet in the middle and work together to see each other instead of it being me. I dont want to loose him and im scared i will as we wont see each other. is there a way around this? please hellp, im really confused :( x

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