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writes:I've been n dis relationship for 2yrs and we hve a 6 month old bby now. we don't c eye to eye on thngs, hve 2 many diff opinions, don't share da same ideas or thoughts. our outlook on almost EVERYTHNG is not the same! WE R JUS WAAAAAAAY 2 DIFF so for that reason WE R ALWAYS ARGUING! trust is ruinned, I dont feel like he is n love with me, I want out but when I thnk about wut life wud b like w/o him, I get scared. wut do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, HATETHIS81 +, writes (19 August 2009):
HATETHIS81 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey, thnk u vry much for ur advice. he & I both mentioned counseling but hve yet to do it. its like we seem serious & then once we smile again we don't mention counseling or church again. I jus either want 2 leave & b hppy or stay & b happy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2009): I guess that depends if you think you have anything worth salvaging? If you really wanna be with this guy you're gonna have to try to stop this destructive pattern.The main thing is you CANNOT bring up a baby in a shouty hostile environment - its just not fair and it'll mess the baby up to watch mummy and daddy tear strips off one another. So maybe if you've got nothing in common and you're not getting on it'd be best to go your separate ways - either that or maybe counselling? You may find that having someone to be there when you're trying to talk could help you to remain calm...help you try to find solutions.You should have a sit on the sofa and try to talk about what you like about each other and what you dislike and what you can do to change it - but remain polite and try to be nice to one another - try even giving each other a hug and try to remember the reasons you got together in the 1st place.Good luck whatever you decide :) xx
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