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writes:I got a qestion i like women alot and im completly attracted to them, i consider my self to be pretty masculine im not into sports much but i like MMA and working out and video games. I dont watch football or basket ball i like sports i can play.My thing is why do alot of people think im gay i get ask that by men and women once they get to kno me and feel comfortble asking me they ask and guys will hit on its been like that since i was a teen, if i just say im not gay they get think im gay for not geting pissed off for being asked if i was gay and if i where to get pissed off they would say it must be true or i wouldnt have gotten offended.In hs i was asked for Bj buy guys they would even tell me there not gay and still want one, I was piked on and flirted with they would grab my ass and chest i worked out heavily and had a bigger chest then most guys, i was still small kid and bigger guys would bother me.im grown up and in the gym guys flirt with me they dont say there gay but i can tell i can feel it, some of them u can tell by there voice, but if a guy wants to shake your hand all the time when your all sweaty its wierd guys do the knukkle bumb not shake hands unless its a busines interview.I was in a bathroom at a trian station this blatanlty gay guy was in the mirror coming his hair and saying how fine he was and he kept looking at me and would constantly come by my sink i only looked at him because if you see a rainbow your gonna look.I consider my self decent looking i have heigh but a small frame well defined but you cant tell through my normal clothes. though ive never had a Gf or been with a women, im heavily into martial arts and bodybuilding kinda like an addiction i dont take steroids or any supplements so im not all hulked out its just pure natural hard earned mucle but with out supplements and enhancer you have to work harder and longer to keep it up, im trying to get a higher dan and degre in several diffrent martial arts forms so my time is taken up i have had matches with men that are tru lethal killing machines its an adrenaline rush women seem kinda boring compared to this. But it doesnt mean im gay cause i am attracted to them. why would people think i am.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2010): Dude, if you get paranoic about people assuming you are gay, it will certainly be obvious you´re worried about it. And if you really are, this will reinforce what people think.
Be today what you wanna be for good!
Don´t insist trying to change the way you talk, thing you like, because, know what, girls don´t care about it. Almost all of them looks for a man who is self confident and a procreator. I'm saying you don't have to itch your balls and spit on sidewalks to be a man. What women want is you to be a procrator, I mean, a creative man. As I'm Brazilian I'll give as example Caetano Veloso, whose manners are known as 'gayish', but as he has such an impressive musical carreer, shows self confidence, millions of women go crazy for him. He is just himself!
Hope that helps you a little
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2009): Thanks for the answers. It happened today a guy was smiling at me he had tight pants and a rainbow belt his shirt seem normal but tigth and colourful.It doesnt bother me i was just wondering it just seems wierd, if guys flirt with me why dont girls or maybe i just dont notice.or was it something i was doing. I never dated because it seems like alot of work and i dont think i have the time to have a Gf and stick to my routines, I dont date because it so complicated i dont want to be rejected a dozen times in hopes of finding the one woman that likes me.I dont have a problem being rejected its like loosing a match, but since its not somehting i have to do i dont.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): You are joking. Masculine men who play Rugby can be gay. Men who are not so masculine, aren't necessarily gay. It's obviously because people out there have not circulated around long enough to meet all different types of people.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): If your not interested in women, find men more exciting than women, never had a girlfriend but don't seem to bothered by it, it would also make me think there's a chance you are gay. J.D is right, if peoples comments offend you that much then just try not to show it bothers you, the only reason they're doing it is because of the reaction they get from you in response to their comments. They'll get bored when they don't get what they want from you!
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reader, kayla20  +, writes (18 August 2009):
 people may think your gay as you dont really show much interest in women as your so interested in something that is passionate to you maybe you should take the time to start dating.there isnt really a reaction you should take when people ask if your gay as people will believe what they choose to believe as long as you know in your heart that your not thats all that matters, dont worry about what other people think just enjoy your life.
take care x
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reader, \m/J.D\m/ +, writes (18 August 2009):
 it sounds strange to me why everyone would assume you to be gay, liking or not liking spots does not define weather your gay, the clothes you wear do not make a person gay.. the way you are shaped, the style of your hair or even the sound of your voice does NOT make someone gay. I think guys just genuinely find you attractive, i would find it more of a complement than anything else. and perhaps everyone is just winding you up about been gay, friends talk you know lol if i were you i would just laugh it off and say "look im not gay but cheers for the complement" with a big smile on your face. :)
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