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*ahlan
writes:I have been with my partner almost 10 years and its been almost 3 since we've made love.I dont want anyone else-though i have had a couple of offers and i trust my man completly.I want our sex life back,but i dont want to get into a rut-which i think was the problem was the 1st time.One idea i want to try is to dress up in something sexy hes never seen,meet him in a pub or somewhere so we can pick each other up like a one night stand at a cheap b and b(our finances are terrible).Ive never been interested in a 1 night stand before,but i think it would be exiting 2 pretend with him-especially if we pretended to be some1 else.Can anyone think of any more roleplay exercises we could do together.I really want to get the spark back into our relationship.Please help me get some exitment back into our relationship.Even after 10 years he still turns me on just looking at him and theres not many couples can say that.
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reader, kahlan +, writes (19 August 2009):
kahlan is verified as being by the original poster of the question To those that answered, thank you for taking the time to help.There were really good ideas.We dont have a car but it would be an idea to catch the bus or train somewhere private,where there is no one around.The idea of the sexy lingerie,then walking around,maybe tidying the house and acting as if nothing unusual is happening is a good idea.I think i,ll get a sexy basque and fishnets this weekend and give it a try.Although i find him sexy and attractive still we are not having sex as it takes 2 to tango.He says he still finds me attractive and i know that the lust dies down after a while but i worry he has went completly off me.Thanks again for all your answers.I am going to try them all.Kahlan.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2009): Sometimes a change of scenery is really all you need. Why not take a vacation somewhere? Or just go for a drive to a teenager make-out spot and make-out like teens again. Role playing isn't the only option for a spark. Or while he's watching TV or something put on some REALLY sexy lingerie and just walk out, like nothing's different. Just go about your routine as normal, and I doubt it will take him long to stop resisting and just carry you into the bedroom.
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reader, beachbabe  +, writes (19 August 2009):
 use whipcream =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2009): If he turns you on so easily, why aren't you having sex?
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There are doctors/nurses vs. patient, school teachers vs. student, librarians vs. anyone really, police officer vs. hot young female driving, arrested for "being too sexy", some people pretend it's rape.. a struggle turns them on. Just a few suggestions.
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