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writes:Hi i recently moved in with my girlfriend and have discoverd that she masterbates with sex toys, that she haves hidden that i have found. knowing when she does it makes me feel depressed and less of a man that i cant take care of my duty with her and she runs to her toys! its bothing me alot and dont know what to do i love her alot but i cant be feeling this way. Thank you
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reader, Mugzie69 +, writes (18 August 2009):
 I'll go with those who say, 'use the toys!' Why not learn to use them as well as better she does--or better...
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): Oh, dear, a toy can never come close to you, honey, but unless you can remove your d__k, when you aren't around she will most likely continue to reach for her toys.
Why not try playing with her toys together in the bedroom, it is a great way to have some fun and to learn more about her body which you can then use that knowledge to drive her even wilder on your own.
Have fun, and stop whining, it isn't manly....(just a joke)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): On the contrary, you're a very lucky guy. She's a sexual gal, and she's taken the time and effort to get to know her body and what works for her. If she's willing to share that with you, you'll be in a much better position to "do your duty" successfully.
The woman I've been with for the last 25 years never masturbated, let alone used a toy. She can't (or won't) tell me what works for her, if anything. You wanna talk about being depressed and feeling less like a man? I'd kill to get her to use a toy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): Are they hidden because she has put them away since meeting you? Why can't people do both anyway? Is it hurting anyone?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): Hi Buddy, I think its not a problem. Maybe, she enjoys orgasms more with these toys than she does with you. Doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you, or with her. If anything is wrong, it may be that both of you dont have such a strong relationship where you can shrae or talk about such things, or even use them during your regular love making for added enjoyment. My wife uses a vibrator during sex, and I really enjoy wathing or playing with her. Other details are confidential:) So, just open up with each other, there's nothing wrong as long as she doesn't get a human toy:)
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