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writes:oh my god i know this is going to sound really strange but i was dumped my guy last year for the gf before me the reason because he still loved her and the oher thing she told him to get rid of me Anyway after we split carried on sleeping together and since then hes got this new gf and shes pregnent but worse still we still occasionly sleep together, and i no that is really bad,But i still love him and speak to him all the time, but recently ive started wanting to get him back and will do anything, i ask if he and his gf are ok and when he says they have arguments i often feel really happy Please whats wrong with me ?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2009): why would you even want this scumbag. hes sleeping with you both. valkue yourself more, you think if the sex is good with you he will come back to you. babes, he is not. but he will still expect sex from you because you have made yourself available to him. this is only about sex for him. for you your emotiona are involved. do yourself a favour. get rid of him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): PLEASE PLEASE STOP SLEEPING WITH HIM!! Trust me, you will end up hating yourself - not only for letting him use you ( coz that is what he's doing!) but for running the risk of ruining the life of the pregnant gf and this poor unborn child...If he wanted to be with you he would NEVER have split up with you let alone dated 2 other women LET ALONE GOT ONE OF THEM PREGNANT!!The poor girl who's pregnant will I'm sure, in time, find out exactly what an absolute b*stard her bf is, but he's not your bf anymore - he has a child on the way! I know you love him, I totally totally sympathise (I have been in your position - only when she got preg I stopped sleeping with him and he cut me off) but she never asked for this and nor did the baby...don't be part of the unhappiness these two innocent people will probably have to go thru...You deserve SO MUCH BETTER than a sly sh*g on the side!! You deserve a bf that will put you first, that won't cheat and who will be there to share life with you, not creating life with another woman... Remember you are beautiful, young and intelligent, you have everything going for you! This guy is a cad! You're much better off without him - just pity the poor girl who has to cope with a guy who sleeps around whilst she's got his baby growing inside her. You can move on and have your babies with a nice guy. Forget him and move away from this mess and fast! Be strong! Your heart will heal with time I promise you :)Good luck hun.xxx
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