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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok well about 3 months ago i started a new job in an office. I met loads of great new people and i loved it. i still love it. i met this one guy in particular, we'll call him robert.I didn't notice him at first, he's not particularly amazing looking or anything infact he was quite a quiet guy when i first started. then one day he made me laugh and we hit it off right away and became good friends, always laughing and joking and flirting. he got my email address off someone and added me on msn and we talked nearly every night. he'd always come and talk to me when he felt bad about something, and he'd talk to me about this other girl in our work who he used to go out with. infact he was quite hung up on her, but they broke up and he wouldnt really tell me why.I heard from someone else a little later that apparently he already had a girlfriend when he started seeing said girl from work. When his girlfriend found out she angrily rang up this girl from my work, and the girl from work broke it off with him.I've asked him about this and he got really angry and said it wasnt true.However his bebo status is still "in a relationship" and his apparent "ex" girlfriend still leaves him comments now and again says things such as "love you". I asked him about this and he says that they arent going out anymore and hes just not changed it...hmmm.Anyway he's since admitted he likes me, he's asked me out for drinks but told me not to tell anyone in work (lmao?) In work he doesn't really leave me alone, he's always going out of his way to talk and flirt with me. He tells me how much he likes me, and how pretty i am etc etc and is quite open about it. I haven't told him i like him back or anything though he does try to get me to say it. I have accepted his offer for drinks though, sometime soon.I really do like him and would like to be with him, but i'm pretty much 100% certain that he's still with his girlfriend and that hes telling me big fat lies. But why? :S
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reader, kayla20 +, writes (18 August 2009):
 he wants the best of both worlds i should think someone at work as a fling and his got his girlfriend at home to give him what he wants to.he may not be happy in his relationship but just cant seem to give it up.i think going for a drink with him as FRIENDS is fine but i dont think you should get any closer as he is in another relationship, i mean dont you think its weird that he doesnt want you tell anyone else in the office?he probably doesnt want them giving you anymore information.if he is in a relationship with someone else and he starts with you what makes you think if you got into a relationship he wouldnt do the same to you.maybe you should test him write on his bebo saying "cant make the drinks tonight how about monday or tuesday" something like that and see if his girlfriend gives a reaction back on his bebo that way yourl know if his still in a relationship or not also if he sees the message and it gets erased you know his hiding something if this is the case id stay away
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