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If he's lying about little things, is he capable of more?

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Question - (18 August 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 20 August 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I found out my husband lied to me about a few things. They were things he didn't really need to lie about, like talking to his ex and going on pornsites. If the conversation with her was innocent, I don't see why he should hide it, and it really hurts because now I don't know if I can trust him, like what else could he lie about? Is this salvageable? Am I overreacting?

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A female reader, hanid Ireland +, writes (20 August 2009):

the truth will always come out in the wash.

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A female reader, beachbabe Chile +, writes (19 August 2009):

beachbabe agony aunta liar will always be a liar..

be careful

good luck,

xo

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A female reader, kittykhaos United Kingdom +, writes (19 August 2009):

kittykhaos agony auntIt depends on the "little things" my sisters b/f lies about the amount stuff costs (he's into computers and tech) he will tell her something cost £100 but it actually cost £150 but mostly because he doesn't want her to worry about money. That is a little thing and i know him we were best friends at 6th form) but he would never do something like talk to his ex with out telling her. You need to find out what he has been saying to her and why he talks to her on porn sites at all. All seems a bit strange to me.

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A female reader, aisforacting United States +, writes (19 August 2009):

aisforacting agony auntWell, you know what they say it starts with small lies and becomes a disastrous lie. I would advice addressing the lie. Asking him why he lied. Ask him his justification and decide whether or not you agree. If not, tell him that if he continues to lie like this he will end up ruining your relationship.

Goodluck with everything!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2009):

Those are not "little things." If he felt the need to lie about talking to his ex and then when pressed said it was an innocent convo, he could still be lying. He wouldn't risk getting caught out and out lying for something "innocent." There's no point in it.

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