He said he doesn't feel the same, but he's still talking about getting engaged

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

my boyfriend and i started dating last june. we became very close very fast, yet we took things slow at first. after 2 months we both said we loved each other. he applied for school 2 hours away, and before he left, he got me a ring to let me know he'll always love me. he moved in october, and i visited every 2 weeks. things continued to go strong. when he came down for christmas, i spent christmas with his family, which they all like me, then he spent the next day with my family... he had fun with my family, and told them that next christmas he wanted to cook for them and made future plans etc.. well the next day i went to see him and when i got there he said that he doesn't feel the same about me anymore. he said i was the best girlfriend hes ever had, hes still attracted to me and i still make him happy....but he just doesnt feel the same anymore and hes not sure why. i asked if there was anyone else he was interested in and he said no. then he said he didnt want to break up. he went back home new years and i went with him, and things were kind of awkward. we continued to talk every day (by his choice) and he texted me constantly all day saying he misses me etc. so in june i decided to move up here with me, and it's now august and he still hasent brought up anything about that night. he talks about buying a house together, and the future and includes me in it, and he even left his computer open with a page up with engagement rings on it. he still hasent told me he loves me and now im sooo cofused.... i know noone can tell me whats going on in his head, but if anyone has any insight on my situation that would be great.

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