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reader, HoneyDeschelle  +, writes (18 November 2010):
like Emmy babbbez sed the same thing happend with me and im still in this situation... we where together saw the relationship going down hill anyway but he sed he wanted to be just friends for now but we can stil"hang out and chil...and stuff" so i was okay.. cuz i still love him and have feelings for him we've known each other for 7 months now(not long at all) and now im four months pregnant with his baby...i was pregnant before with his but i had a miscarriage the first time we where together this time werent together so basically we where just fuck buddies and i happend to get pregnant in the process...to make it worse he doesnt love me like he sed he did before i know he doesnt..he has anuther baby mother and i think and feel that he has more feelings for her..always been that way his heart is wioth her..so now im feeling sooooooo terrible and like i messed up my whole life im a sophmore in college and now i may have to drop out of school because of this.. take it from me it does hurt...BAD!!!! and i wish i culd do it over ..now i have to make a decision on if i should really let him go and move on now that i have recognised what situation im in...so good luck and blessing to u!
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reader, jstdunno +, writes (18 August 2009):
Stop having sex with him , find another guy and move on.
I don't know if he's using you because you're enjoying it too right? But do you want to have a relationship which iinvolves him coming over when he feels like it and you're his doormat?
I say cut all ties and make it clear you won't stand for this behaviour.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): He seems to be taking advantage of you.
DONT allow him to have sex with you. If he insists, tell him its all he thinks about and u dont want to waste ur time with someone who doesnt love you. if he did, the relationship would still continue.
If he only wants to get back to have sex, trust me, he doesnt deserve you. You need to make yourself strong about this.
-zinz.
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reader, kayla20  +, writes (18 August 2009):
 if you broke up you shouldnt still be sleeping together as it gives wrong impression to both you and him.if you love eachother and are still sleeping together then why did the relationship end?maybe you should tell him that you are not prepared to have sex with him anymore unless you are in a relationship as it is messing with your head.i think he likes the idea of having someone to go to for sex whenever he wants but likes the single life as well but if i was you i wouldnt let it be that simple if that was me
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reader, \m/J.D\m/ +, writes (18 August 2009):
 your letting this guy take advantage of you. if he still loved you he would be WITH you not just using you to dump his load as and when it suits him. harsh but true sorry hun sometimes you have to be in life to open someones eyes. tell him to clear off and let you move on with you instead of stringing you along. as soon as he finds someone else willing to sleep with him he will leave you high and dry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): Once again i agree with satin here!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): If your ok with it, then fine. but you should move on with your life(date others) because you might be setting yourself up to get hurt. He might stop coming around when he meets other women, that pleases him. You'll find yourself feeling more upset then when you broke up, you'll feel used. so be strong and move on and take it for what it is. a booty call.
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reader, Emmy babbbez +, writes (18 August 2009):
 i think that your use to the sex, and that's a big part of the relationship. if you love each other it should work out eventually and maybe establish a better relationship. but you should not be having sex if you are over..what if you got pregnant? now he's not even your boyfriend...you need to talk to him and tell him if he wants you then you need to work it out, but your not having sex anymore..BE THE ONE IN POWER!!!!!! hope this helps X0Oo
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reader, sugar_sugar +, writes (18 August 2009):
 It's not a good idea. You still have the emotional attachment of a relationship without any of the security, you still have the existing issues of the relationship without any real drive to fix them as you two aren't really together.For one you're just prolonging the healing process and potentially blocking yourself off from giving any other guys a real shot.And secondly as you two aren't together who's to say he won't start sleeping with other people, aside from the emotional impact think about the health risks.
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