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*exleburger
writes:me and my fella have been together for 6 months now, and both are adventurous in the bedroom.he recently told me about a fetish he has, of being peed on (his stomach, penis and basically lower body)being a fantastic girlfriend (and quite curious too) i told him id give it a go(though im VERY paranoid when weeing, i have to insure no one can hear)i drank loads. i was soooooo close to bursting it was unbelieveablewe got in the bath, me kneeling over him. . . waiting and ready.but nuthing. i just couldnt.we turned the lights out cuz i thought id be less aware of it, turned the tap on, hoping the noise would make me need to peeand after about 10 mins i managed a pittyful trickle. and that was that. it was stupid, did not meet his expectations, and i feel i really let him down. he said he enjoyed it, it was great blah blah, but i just felt useless and like id ruined one of his fetishes. i just want to know, are theyre any tips, ie, positions, exercises, things i can do etc to help mei want to be able to do this for him, im hoping i may get a fantasy fulfulled in return haha please dont bother with stupid answers, i know its not everyones cup of tea, but just respect that this is something we want to do =]]thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): My ex had the same fetish and used do it to me, and i didn't find it such a bad experience to be honest lol! I'm thinking you could get a bit drunk so you might not be a self conscious, and will definatly need to pee more freely. You could also give your bladder area a gentle press if you can't let go too easily. There is a lot of stigma attached to this particular fetish because of what it is (pee), but it is more common than what a lot of people may think.
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reader, hijacked_dignity  +, writes (18 August 2009):
 You have more guts than I ever could have. I don't think I could ever be comfortable enough to urinate on someone. Some suggestions? Start off slow. Maybe start going into public bathrooms when you are sure there are other people there and attempt to pee when other people can hear it. After you become comfortable with the sound issue, then (as a previous poster suggested), ask your boyfriend to come into the bathroom with you so you can get used to him hearing and seeing as well. This could take quite a bit of mental preparation, seeing as in society this is usually a bit no-no. He's damn lucky to have a girlfriend that is willing to do it! So he should have no problems helping you along with your issues as far as urinating while others are around is concerned.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): The same thing happened to me too! And I was all for it - it was me that suggested we give it a go! So not being able to pee at the right moment seemed ridiculous!It's natural to feel a bit embarrassed and sometimes you have to build up to it. Try peeing "normally" in front of him - on the toilet, then try opening your legs a bit so he can see the stream. Try peeing into the toilet while you are both kissing passionately. Later try peeing whilst you're in the shower or bath together. I found it easier if I DIDN'T tell him that I was going to pee (and sometimes he didn't even notice)just so I didn't feel pressure to perform.Hope this work for you! Enjoy!
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reader, lexleburger +, writes (18 August 2009):
lexleburger is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe wasnt pressuring me, hes the best guy ever, and said he enjoyed it anyway. i must admit im terrified of making other bodily noises if you get what i mean. . .
that would be mortifying for me
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reader, jessjess +, writes (18 August 2009):
 Well each to their own! It's because you were worried/anxious which is why you couldn't. You felt under pressure to live up to his expectations and your mind was too focussed on that to relax. You probably should get more used to the idea before trying it again...do you really want to do it? Because if you had doubts maybe that would have been why it didn't work out too. If your boyfriend really cares about you you will have earnt a hell load of respect from him for even agreeing to try new things for him with the hope of making him happy. That should be worth more to him than the fulfilment of his sexual fantasies anyway. So I wouldn't worry too much :) Maybe try some other new things in the bedroom first, so that if you try this again it won't seem so daunting.
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reader, LOSTHOPE +, writes (18 August 2009):
 To each their own! We all have ''wierd'' fetishes, some go for it and others don't! Im a ''shy pee'er'', no matter how bad I have to go, if someone is in the bathroom, I can't go. Try starting off with him attending u in the bathroom when u do have to pee. Then work from their. It may take some time and work but soon you should feel comfortable enough around him to do so. Hope it helps!
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