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writes:I'm fifteen years old, and I'm almost two months pregnant with my first child. I have been planning on getting an Abortion, because the father is a dead beat and I don't have much support other then that.Lastnight I had a dream, I was holding a baby girl. She was dressed in all pink. She went from being my baby to my little sister in the dream. My friends wanted to hang out, but I kept telling them I had to see this baby girl. She was laughing.Later on in the dream, I approached my ex boyfriend, who is the babys father in real life, also my ex boyfriend in real life. We started fighting because he disappeared and didn't tell me where he was. I started crying and asking him if he ever loved me. I'm pretty sure he whispered no.. but then he grabbed my hand and kissed me.. and then we were back together?I told him I had an ultra sound on thrusday, which is also true in real life.What do you think this dream means??
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2009): Dreams are usually our subconcious mind trying to work out problems in our daily life and they are not to be taken literally as they are usually just symbolic.
Dreaming about a baby represents a "burden" that you might want to be rid of. Understandable, you probably wish you did not have the burden of being pregnant and having to make hard choices.
If you plan on getting an abortion, organizations like Birthright are not going to help you there, they will put pressure on you to give birth and either keep the baby or give it up for adoption. If you plan on terminating the pregnancy, then do so as soon as possible as it will be better for everyone concerned.
In the future, I hope you have learned something from this experience and take proper birth control percautions, like be on the pill, and don't get sexually involved with deadbeats...for a couple.
I know this will be a stressful time for you and I hope you have some good family or friends to help you through it.
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reader, kahlan  +, writes (18 August 2009):
 The dream is probably your subconcious helping you deal with whats happening.It is a big decision having an abortion,but having a baby would also be a big decision.You are young having to deal with this.You say you dont have much support.Are you living at home with your parents?Is there noone you can talk to about this?If not your parents how about a sympathetic relative like an aunt,grandma or older sister.In fact before you make any more decisions,i will find you a charity place in Canada (Im from Scotland).No matter what you decide to do, talk it through with someone profesional first.Dont let anyone force you into doinng something you dont want to do.Here are some places i found.First try StandUpGirl.com They look best.The other 1 i found was Birthright International.About it it says"offer caring,non judgmental support to girls&women who are distressed by an unplanned pregnancy.They have offices throughout the US and Canada.Their phone number is 1-800-550-4900.Please let me know how you get on as I'll be thinking about you.Love Kahlan.XXX.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (18 August 2009):
 Dear poster, your dream is very clear. You would want your boyfriend to return to you, and you wouldn't want your daughter to prevent you from doing things you are used to do freely, like hanging out with your friends.
I am sorry that you're going through this all alone. He should be by your side, and so should your relatives and his own relatives. You're very young and probably you can't handle a pregnancy alone. We're here to help, and we will do just that, but I wonder if you can find someone else, someone physical, not virtual, to help you now that you're in this situation. You need someone to be by your side, whatever your decision is. This is not a light issue.
Since the father of your baby is not there with you, a good start would be NOT to hope that he will come back, but to live your own life the best way possible.
My heart is with you.
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