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writes: me and my girlfriend has been together for two years. I moved with her into her place. we got into a fight so she kicked me out. she still wants to be a couple(you know go out together, i come over every other day, still have sex...ect) but she don't want me to move back in. I want to go back home so bad! if she won't let me back i ready to call this relationship over do you think im wrong for that???? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (18 August 2009):
Sometimes people are better off not living together. I don't think you're wrong for feeling that, because maybe it's a sign that things probably won't work out in the future. I tried living with a boyfriend a couple times...and it's hard to live with another person.
I think that if you still love her and want to be with her, then I don't think you should break up with her out of spite. However, if you don't want to be with her simply because you don't care for her the same way then you should break things off. If you decide to stay in the relationship, you really should respect her feelings about not having you live with her anymore. Just because she doesn't want you to live with her now, doesn't mean that maybe she'll give it another try later on down the road.
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