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writes:I am 35yrs old and I am scared that I am falling in love with my girlfriends 15yr old daughter. I adore her so much and I have no sexual intention towards her at all. I am so confused by these feelings because although it seems so wrong it does not feel that way. I intend this matter to remain completely unrequited and I don't want to harm our relationships in any way. I just don't know how to cast off these feelings. Somebody please help, I simply don't know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2009): You'd have to be a robot to not appreciate a fine teenage form. We men will appreciate a girl as much when we are 80 as we did when we were 15.But the line is drawn there. Under no circumstance, at all, should you allow any fantasies or feelings to either show themselves outwardly or nor should you even act upon them.If its all in your head, fair enough. No one has the right to stop you from having fantasies.Its a man's CHOICES that show what he truly is. So make the right one.Flynn 24
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (18 August 2009):
 im sure your going to get a bunch of post telling you your a band man and its wrong and immoral and all this stuff.The Bible says not to lust are you lusting or infatuated i think theres a diffrence. Shes young and innocent (i dont mean sexually innocent cause i dont kno i mean ignorant baggage free) and and brings a spark of youth into your life.Theese feeling are normal and natural but your a human being not a beast of the wild you can make choices right ones and wrong ones a dog will follow his instincts a man will make a choice.ignor these feelings realise that you can never be more then what you are to her a freind at best.I wouldnt even say its wrong to have fantasies but make sure they dont become reality.Aknowledge the issue you say your falling in love, you have no sexual intention toward her there's a difference between intent and desire. If you feel your in love with this girl then you probably have sexual desire. You shouldnt feel bad these feelings alone arent bad just dont act on them, to get rid of the feelings maybe you cant, maybe its a test a Challenge from God.Distance your self from this girl or be the adult and treat her as the child she is and you should be fine.
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