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writes:I've been in a relationship with a man for almost four years..starting off in the relationship he was very loving and supportive mentally ,physically, financially...I was not working when we met...though he knew that I were off work due to an on the job injury...he were supportive....he would sometimes say things that made me think he thought I could go back or should go back to work....I explained to him that I , due to my injuries retired and recieve a disability pension...This was about 2 years into the relationship...He assured me that was not a problem...he understood...I take care of all household chores, he pay all the bills,perfect marriage,though we are not civilly married,(by standing before an official an being pronounced man and wife...yet by God's standard(his quote, I concur)we are husband and wife.Things have slowly changed... he appears to be flirting with other women before me with longing eye to eye glares,smiles,etc...stays later and later to work sincerely, I've checked...sex does not seem like a pleasure for him with me, but a chore...my problem are opinions seem to be blunted to listen to what he has to say. I'm not complaining though I wander...Is this what marriage is?...Am I over reacting to my own selfishness?...How can I handle my insecure emotions? This is not my first marriage...two others ended for reason of infidelity and abusiveness.I fear now I've become an agony with him...He say not...Yet he shows agony.Troubled Nubian
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): Have you tried entertaining your partner at home? Invite others over for a dinner. Have family pop in. Study and learn some-thing and have courses and clubs you both can talk about and of people and go together with some. Plan events like parties and go on holidays.
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