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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi thereheres my situation: i really like this girl and we met through a mate and we have seen each other and like gone to the cinema and that like i think its about 5 times now and we are always texting each other and the other day she said she "likes" me. When we last saw each other we were holding hands and that which was good. But heres my problem. I want to kiss her but i cant quite get myself to do it. with a girl a went out with last time i went to kiss her and kind of just pushed my face into hers and it was really embarrasing. I have never kissed someone and she says she has and i told her i actually have aswell so i wouldnt look like a jerk. I just dont want to make an idiot of myself when it comes to it. Any tips?thanks in advanceregards
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reader, jstdunno  +, writes (18 August 2009):
Tell her. When you are out together sit down somewhere and hold her hand and say 'you know the way I said I had kissed someone? Well that was a little lie because I've actually been waiting for the right girl and that's you.' That's way hotter than a boy who's kissed lots of girls and it will make her feel special.
If you're nervous tell her. She won't mind. Enjoy!
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reader, pexie +, writes (18 August 2009):
alrighty, my boyfriend did the same thing to me.he lied and said he already kissed a girl so that i dont think hes a 'loser.' when i found out the truth a year into our relationship i was so angry at him that he kept this lie going on for a whole year! i felt like crap for believing him cause i really fell in love with him. Anyway! if you really like her, tell her the truth... and just relax, dont complicate things
also, watch what you eat when youre with her. goodluck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): tell her you havn't.
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reader, dancingismyremedy +, writes (18 August 2009):
I remember agonizing over my first kiss. I actually never kissed somebody until i was 17.. kind of lame i know. And its not that I'm ugly or never had any guys interested in me, i was just way too scared!Now that i'm older, I can see how silly i was being. Since my first kiss I have no problems kissing any guys, infact a few have told me what a good kisser i am.Just go for it. Don't even think about it, you'll be suprised at how much instinct takes over. It's like you'll just know what to do. Let her take the lead since shes more experienced and just try and go with the flow.I really do think though that you should tell her the truth. It will take the pressure off you majorly. Just tell her you lied because you didnt want to seem inexperienced. If shes worth it, she'll understand, and hey, its absolutely nothing to be ashamed of.Good luck, I hope your first kiss is as amazing as mine was. what the hell was i ever worried for?!xx
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reader, Felisha Marie +, writes (18 August 2009):
 Honey, Honey calm down, take a deep breath, relaxing is the best thing you can do while kissing. Just look at her for awhile, in the eyes, half way smile till she grins...slowly and calmly inch in towards her lips caress the back of her head and depending on what type of kiss this will be, go forth! Create passion! Just go with the flow, I know that soo cliche, but in this scenario it's true.Good Luck.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (18 August 2009):
 youll be fine if shes an expert kisser at your ages id be worried. you should be honest before you kiss her shell probably like being your first kiss you never forget your first kiss. if you can kiss you can tell the TRUHT! she wont think your uncool or like you any less she may give you some tips and make it extra special.MY advice tell the girl the truth, dont eat doritos or oreos your a kid so i wont say not to eat spinach or brocolli, dont eat funyuns or onions or fish and chew some gum use lipgloss make sure your teeth are shiny and brite and tell the truth.Kiss her lips save all the fancy stuff later neck kissing is nice to but any way be a gentleman whatever you do
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