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writes:okaayy so basically i cant get over my ex boyfriend i broke up with him in july and he found a new girlfriend right away but their relationship only lasted for weeks while he was with her he wanted me to send him nude pics but i wouldnt so he got really mad and didnt text me for days..he deleted me off of his myspace and everything so i asked him what was his problem then he just flipped out on me..and a couple of days later he comes apologizing to me so i accepted his apology but a couple of days later he was flirting with my cousin in front of my face so i asked him why was he flirting with her and he told me he was just telling her she was cute and that he wasnt flirting..i actually believed him so i asked him did he wanna text me and he said sure but he hasnt even text me yet..i dont know whats the issue..is he tired of me ? should i move on ?
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reader, Bwolf35 +, writes (19 August 2009):
Sounds to me like both of you are really immature. First off, you broke up with him but from what you are saying you dont know if you did the right thing or not, which suggests that you either broke up with him on a whim or just generally wasnt sure what you wanted even while you were with him which in a way was a bit like playing headgames. Now it seems as if he is just playing some childish payback on you by playing a few headgames with you. Basically just cut off all contact with him. That way he will stop trying to hurt you with his flirting , etc. Then what you need to do is some serious growing up and some serious reflecting on what it is you want and where it is you want your life to lead you. That way the next man you hook up with and form a relationship with will be someone you actually want and not some someone to pass the time with.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (18 August 2009):
Please move on from this immature, disrespectful jerk! Of course you're not over him yet, you only broke up in July! My last relationship was over in May and I'm still trying to heal from it. Don't talk to this boy anymore. Who cares what he thinks about you? Tired of you? He's just trying to use you and see what he can get out of you. I'm glad you weren't stupid enough to send him nude pics. You're doing the right thing so far. Don't let him have his way, he's trying to use you.
To get over this silly boy you need to cut off contact with him. Don't call, text, email, IM, snail mail, whatever. Just don't talk to him and don't accept any communication he tries to make with you. It can be hard, but the ONLY way you can get over someone is when you don't talk to them. When they keep coming in and out of your life it's nearly impossible. Stay strong, you can do it. You deserve better than some guy like that, he's disrepectful and selfish.
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