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writes:ok i like this guy. he is four years younger than me but he is very mature and he looks mature as well.. i know that if i were to date him many people would start judging and i'm really afraid of what they might say. Reply to this Question
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reader, purple_butterfly  +, writes (18 August 2009):
Its always advisable to not do anything which you would regret later on possibly as from now on, youre thinkin about what people are going to say. and also its illegal. I see 3 problems1) people are guna judge you for sure2) its illegal3) even if you date, regardless of what people say here, youre soon guna realise that complications would increase and it would just turn out to be a waste of a lot of effort , emotions and time I know that youd be a lil reluctant and might take a bit of an effort to not start it , but I think it would be a better decision.I pray for the best of you.God blesstake carelove
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): go for it. i have a friend who is also dating a guy 4 years younger. At first, everyone had a problem with it, but i've never seen a couple so in love. Nowadays no-one even notices it and theyve only been together a few months.
My advice to you would be to go ahead. Be prepared for the backlash. But if you work well together, and you are both as mature as eachother, then within weeks it will be old news among your friends. If it works for you then its nobody elses business.
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reader, t4llyann  +, writes (18 August 2009):
go for it. i have a friend who is also dating a guy 4 years younger. At first, everyone had a problem with it, but i've never seen a couple so in love. Nowadays no-one even notices it and theyve only been together a few months.My advice to you would be to go ahead. Be prepared for the backlash. But if you work well together, and you are both as mature as eachother, then within weeks it will be old news among your friends. If it works for you then its nobody elses business.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): Yes, he is too young for you, doesn't matter how physically mature he looks, he is a baby....and in the US you could be convicted of child molestation if you were to touch him inappropriately. Boys mature much slower than girls do, mentally, emotionally and often physically, so the four year age gap at this age is pretty huge.
Leave the boy/child alone and date someone in your own age pool, OK?
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