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writes:The situation here is a little complicated, so let me explain.My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years. We are both graduating college this year, and he will be moving across the country to take a job. I have no job lined up for next year and it is too late to apply for graduate school.Unfortunately, due to a family situation, I can no longer live at home with my parents. This means that when I graduate in May, I will be homeless. I'm still applying for jobs, but so far, I have not been successful in finding one. To make it clear, I have explored several options, and I still have no place to live after graduation.My boyfriend and I have been on rocky ground the last few months, but he says he wants me to move in with him. I don't want to do this if he's only offering out of pity, but he promises he wants me there. I'm afraid I'll become a burden to him, he'll resent me, and we will break up. Should I move in with him, or should I stay here and try to find a place to live? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo, there is absolutely no way that my parents would let me move back in. My mother has already informed me that if there's not any other option, I should fail my classes so that I can continue living on campus next year.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2011): I think you should sit and talk with your parents and work things out. They love you and would care for you in such a situation. I will guarantee this no matter what the issue is. Its very hard to initiate I understand however once you do, you can easily take steps to resolve whatever conflict is going on. Good luck.
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