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writes:I am currently 21 i just broke up with my gf (27)We have had a long distance relationship for 7 months we talk and see each other on skype everyday or on the phone. I only seen her psychically maybe 1 month.We just broke up since valentines day of 2011, since then we sometimes talk but not too often anymore.She said although we broke up she still want to remain as friends (if its meant to be its meant to be). Sometimes she sends me emails and tell me what she have been up to and sometimes she calls me and we talk. But i really want to know if i have a chance with her again. The situation we have now is kind of weird i think 1.she tells me she wants to be just friends2. she is burnt out because of my insecurity and maturity etc.3. she want us to be independent 4. she said that she still loves me and misses me at times5. she said she won't say (love you) too often anymore because she said in case i get the wrong meaning to it 6. she wants to keep in close contact with me 7. when we talk she does the same things (like funny faces or puckers on the screen for me and call me names like baby or boo)8. she ask me to explore around and if we are meant for each other we will be back togetherwhat can i do?i don't want her to fall in love with someone else !is there a way back with her?please help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni wished i can go back in time to fix those mistakes
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2011): It pretty much in the same situation right now.My boyfriend broke up with me 4 days after valentines, after declaring he wanted to be with me for ever on valentines day.I am totally devastated. He says he wants to still be there for me, as a friend. To me, that hurts too much, i dont want to watch him move on and fall in love with someone else.The best advice iv got off everyone is to give them space and time to think. Its the hardest thing iv ever done and its taking all my willpower but im trying not to contact him so maybe, just maybe he will come back to me 'if its meant to be'I feel your pain and heartache i feel devastated without him. But then everything does happen for a reason even tho its hard to see it right now.Goodluck
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reader, StarryEyes101  +, writes (2 March 2011):
 I think she still has feelings with you but maybe she broke it off with you coz you are so far away, she feels sad knowing that you won't wake up with her in the mornings, or be there when she falls asleep..
Ask her if there is any future for you both. Give her some space and she will probably see what she is missing.
Hope this helps =)
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