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writes:So ive come to the conclusion that guys are very confusing. They dont seem to know how to express what they want from a girl. So i met a guy who ive known for a little while now. He is in the same organization as me in my university. He approached me through facebook by sending me a message through chat. So we started talking and he gave me his number and we began texting eachother. At the beginning he would text me first but then i started texting him first because he stopped texting me first. But after a while we both stopped talking for a month because when we would see eachother on campus neither one of us would say a word to eachother just look at eachother once in a while. So since he wouldnt make a move i figured he didnt like me anymore. During that time he would like my pictures that i would post or my status. This is when i got confused, it seems like a game that i cant figure out. So i texted him recently and we began talking. He seemed interested and would ask me questions. I told him"isnt it funny how we see eachother on campus but dont say anything to eachother" and he said"lol yeah. Perhaps we'll change that sometime;)" i just said "perhaps:)...." trying to be a little flirty:). So what does what he said mean? Is he still interested? I also told him that it was nice talking to him and not be a stranger, i was trying to hint at him that i like talking to him. But that week when we saw eachother on campus during our organization meeting we looked at eachother but didnt say a word to eachother...again. But i could feel him looking at me once in a while but i was so much more nervous, that i couldnt say anything to him. So i just want to know what this situation were in means? Does he like me still? If he does why does he only text me when i text him but he doesnt do it on his own?basically what does he want? He cant be that shy to talk to me, he is 3 years older than me. Im more nervous than he is, im sure about that.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (1 March 2011):
 You're still wishy-washing with this guy? I know I've seen this post before.
Lets not forget that its not his job to make a move...
Now if you can't make a move, which I think is a total cop-out personally, then you're just gonna have to keep waiting for him to make a move.
If he doesn't make a move, then its most likely because you're not throwing out strong enough signs that you're interested in him to convince him that he won't get rejected... Or he's shy.... Or he's just not interested. If I was a betting man I'd say that if you're too afraid to even talk to him, then you're certainly not showing enough signs that you're interested in him.
Just my 2 cents.
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