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writes:So I've liked this guy for a while now and he knows this too. And all my friends says he liked me and he even has told me he does however I just have a feeling that he doesn't like me as much as I do to him, which is a problem.So he asked me out a few times and I was unable to see him however last week, he asked me round his place to watch a movie and I went, and it was really nice. We spoke for hours and it was just really nice talking to him and getting to know him and it seems like he wants to know me too. So we watched the movie and I ended up staying the night but nothing happened. I told him that nothing will happen anytime soon because I'm not that kind of girl and he seemed fine.So I saw him again on sunday as my friends go to the place he works every sunday and I ended up proposing to him for me to stay round his and he was fine with this and again, no sex. I really like him but he never calls or text, when I say never, I mean never. I want to think that he doesn't text or call anyone but I'm not so sure about this.Does he like me? Will he ask me out on a proper date in public ever? When? Why does he never call or text? What do I do?
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (1 March 2011):
 Well the train isn't the only means of public transportation.
I see why you stayed though. You missed the train, you were tired, and the guy you like is asking you to stay. I commend you for holding your ground in no sex, messing around etc. Sometimes that's hard to do in that given situation.
But if a guys asks you to spend the night, wanting you to come up, etc. then he's got other intentions in mind besides seriously dating you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, I missed the last train back home and yes he did propose the idea, I was all for going home but after having a couple of glasses of wine, I got pretty sleepy, so it wasn't that I was planning on staying the night but more that I couldn't be bothered to get out of bed.
But I see your point.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (1 March 2011):
Why did you stay the night, how come you didn't go home? Did you propose the idea, or did he insist you stay? And no fooling around happened whatsoever?
Really, you shouldn't be spending the night at his house on the first date. Unless, you are in this for sex. You're not, so you spending the night with him and no sex is being a tease. It's also moving way too fast..your first date and you're already crashing at his place, perhaps in the same bed? (Or maybe he slept on the couch, floor, or guest room).
It's a bad sign that he doesn't call or text you at all; if a guy likes you he will call/text you.
I believe he's going to keep on letting you spend the night until you eventually have sex with him, then he won't see you anymore. Even worse, you know he won't contact you afterwards. You seem persistent on him, but he's not into pursuing you.
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