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writes:I met this man a few weeks ago when i was out with my friends and he was out with his friends. At the end of the night, he wanted us to have each others numbers, but one of the other guys who was there, had a go at him ( he thought i didn't like him hanging around me, whereas actually, i was worried about another guy who had been hanging around us, so there was a misunderstanding there ) so he left before we could swap numbers. I bumped into him by chance today, and i asked him when he was going to be out again, and he said friday when he gets paid and asked why and i said i wondered if he wanted to meet up. He asked me if i had my phone with me , which i thought was a good sign, as he mentioned giving our numbers again, so it wasnt me asking him for his number. I guess if he hadnt been interested he could have just said he didnt know when he was next out or something, or could have said he had forgotten his number and not offered to write mine down or something. I felt nervous about giving it to him as i didnt see him for long so i dont know if it would have looked a bit funny me giving him my number out of the blue, even though he mentioned it , or me asking him to meet up out of the blue. I wanted to show him that i was interested though since he might have thought that i wasnt interested last time. I'm really worried incase he loses my number though as he only had a small piece of paper for me to write it down on. I think it will be friday when we meet, if he still wants to. I didnt have any paper or my phone with me, so i couldnt take his number, unfortunately. It might be best that he only has mine any way though, as it could be a test to see if he will contact me. Do you think its ok that i gave him it, and do you think he might still be interested ?. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2011): i know. i wish i had now. i sometimes do keep it close to me, but there are certain places where i dont have it with me, such as, if i'm in the bathroom, if i'm shopping, if i'm in the middle of doing house work, e.t.c. and i usually take my phone out with me, and that was the first time that i hadnt taken it in ages ( when i bumped into him ), as i didnt need think i would need it at first,as i wasnt out long. i ended up finding out that that number he called from was from a pay phone too, as i called it again today and someone picked the phone up and told me, so now i dont have any way of contacting him. i dont think i expected him to ring last night either, since he only mentioned going out on friday. if i dont hear from him, and if i bump into him again, i'll ask if it was him who called and explain what happened. if it was him, since he called seven times, i would think that he is interested, but i just hope he is interested enough to try again.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (2 March 2011):
 Why don't you ever have your phone with you? You would think since you didn't have it with you that one time when he asked for your number, that it would never leave your side.
I think that you're getting WAY too nervous about this guy, to the point of where you are forgetting important details such as your phone. You really need to calm down. He has your number, since you don't have his you need to wait for him to call you. This means keeping your phone on you at ALL times. If he calls a bunch and you miss it, then he's going to think you're not interested anymore.
Now, what you need to do is call that number back ASAP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2011): I'm even more worried now.i've had 7 missed calls.i missed them as i was out for a bit and didnt have my phone with me.i tried to call back soon after but there was no answer.i think it was him since it was a lot of calls and it was our area code.there was no voicemail message.i'm really stressed now.he might think i was ignoring him.
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