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writes:Ejaculation Places of InterestWhat does it typically mean when: men have a fantasy about cuming on a woman's breasts? Why does my husband suddenly express this same fantasy? After one year of marriage do I have reason for concern?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2011): YES you do have a reason for concern! You should be concerned if you don’t enjoy him cumming on your breasts!!!Lol :-) And what Taste of India says “The way I see it, he's gotta cum somewhere and your rack is a perfectly eligible landing zone.” is very true! I cum on my wife quite often and I cum all over her.When I do cum on her I cum on her breasts, her bum, her upper legs, her vagina, her stomach and even her face. Not all at once mind you!! don’t think I can do that! but every time somewhere different. I particularly like cumming in her hands. There is something very intimate and sensual about cumming on a girl during sex. Believe it or not but it has brought us closer. In our early days of marriage I couldn’t have dreamed of cumming on my beautiful wife, that was a big NO back then but things have changed and she loves it now and very often asks me to do it:-). “Why does my husband suddenly express this same fantasy?” you reasonably ask. Well if he is anything like me, we like to cum on what’s pretty! :-p
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2011): I love it when my boyfriend does that to me. It's a very common thing I hardly consider it strange or out of the ordinary.you've only been married one year so maybe your husband has always had this fantasy but only now feels comfortable expressing it to you?
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (2 March 2011):
 Oh I love it when a guy does that! Brings an interesting wrinkle to the sex act.
Very popular in porn too, maybe he's seen a scene he likes? It's not a cause for concern unless you aren't comfortable with it, really. Though I don't see why you should be - it feels nice and warm against the skin.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (2 March 2011):
 The way I see it, he's gotta cum somewhere and your rack is a perfectly eligible landing zone. If it makes you uncomfortable, you have reason for concern... but otherwise, I don't think this is anything unusual or extraordinary. Could be a porn thing. Could be a creative idea he's had recently. Maybe he's just wanting to try something new and he's found that he's really into this!
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reader, charliesdevil73 +, writes (2 March 2011):
 It's done in porn a lot. Usually a man cums on the women in some sort of way and she smiles like it's the best thing in the world. He may just want to try it and see what it is like. Some men like the idea of it, and once they do it grosses them out. Some men love it and want to do it all the time. And then there are men that think it's gross to begin with.
Personally, the boobs are too close to the face. I've heard it hurts when you get it in the eyes, so I would say no if my fiance asked to do that. But I've had it on my back, belly button, shot at my tattoo, what have you. I honestly think it's like when a guy spits a big spit ball on the ground and watches. He just wants to see it happen. If you're comfortable with it, go for it. If you decide you don't like it, tell him and that will be that.
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reader, Moonknight  +, writes (2 March 2011):
 Porn thing? most of these answers are coming from females, how many of these females have a penis...? yeah exactly.
In a marriage of course you've already established some kind of birth control, but when you haven't where is a man mean to blow his load?
When a guy "pulls out" there isn't much options as to where to blow your load, have you ever thought about the fact that it just feels good to do it on a womans breast and actually an easy place to reach when in the heat of blowing off steam?
No? well your husband could just the bored of doing the same thing, if you are not comfortable with it then express this with him. It should be a good sign he's not the type to get boring with the same method over and over and over again
You have no reasons to be concerned.
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reader, Blonde68 +, writes (1 March 2011):
 Over here in England it is known as giving the woman a pearl necklace.
If you are happy with it, then continue, if not, then you must say so... you shouldn't do something that you are not comfortable with.
Yes, it is something that is seen on porn films, however, it doesnt necessarily mean he has watched any... I mean, its not rocket science to think up somewhere different to off load... sorry for the phrase! Perhaps he thinks it is time to try something different and spice things up.
I wouldn't be concerned about it,if you are comfortable about it, but like I say, talk to him if you are not happy.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (1 March 2011):
 Yep, the anon poster is right. That's a porn thing, unfortunately. The man either uses the woman's breasts to bring himself to orgasm, or he gets himself to the point of it in order to ejaculate all over them.I doubt he's cheating on you, but porn nowadays is into that. Just look up the words "titty fuck" on Google (sorry about being so gross!) and you'll see what we're talking about. Personally, I think it's gross, but if my husband were to ask for it, I might oblige him just to get it out of his system. It falls under the "what the hell kind of fantasies do you men have?!" rather than something really creepy or off-putting category.
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reader, free advice  +, writes (1 March 2011):
Most of the pornography shows men ejaculating on the female's body, and the female expresses her liking and I think that is just to show off what the load is or how it looks like. This scene usually ends the film so this is used as the last scene to be considered. If the guy cums inside, it is hardly noticed. What your hus does is the replica he sees on these films. Most of the men does not understand (or does not want to accept)that films stereotype things and actions and expressions done are solely under the discretion of the director. Therefore they try to replicate things over their girlfriend or wife thinking that it makes them happier. I think this could be talked over with him if you do not like this act. Tell him not to do this all the time and ask him to do the way you like it too. Slowly, I think you could get rid of this habit from him. Good luck.
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