A
female
age
36-40,
*ssy
writes:please my boyfriend told me he is breaking up with me because i was told off of my friend, who is a male who told me he saw him with another lady. Now he thinks I am having an affair with the guy and tells me he wants to meet the guy before he decides to stay with me or not. Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2011): I have to say that I agree with charitysend. Your b/f wants to decide whether to break up with you? That's a bit rich! Call his bluff and send him packing!
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reader, charitysend  +, writes (1 March 2011):
Not exactly sure what you are saying here ... Did Male Friend tell you he saw your boyfriend with another girl? And now for some reason your boyfriend thinks that you and Male Friend are involved? And your boyfriend wants to meet Male Friend before he decides to break up with you or not?
Boy, that's just weird all over.
Bottom line in any relationship situation, though, is this: If you have to beg someone to stay, don't bother. If someone threatens to leave you, give them their hat and show them the door.
You will find love again. Don't mistake manipulation and jealousy for love.
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