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writes:Im in a relationship with a guy who is older. He is 7 years older than me. We have being 'dating' for the last 4 month now. It defo just dating still as I only see him a couple of nights a week.He never takes me out through the day and ive never met his family. We had an argument last weekend and he said he 'was right not to commit to me'. If someone likes you that much dont they just commit to a relationship. He then tells me that 'he loves me to bits' and 'cant live without me'. I told him i wanted to say them things back but Im scared of getting hurt. He said you wont get hurt because I dont want to be hurt either.Does the guy want this relationship to go anywhere or is he just waiting till someone else comes along? Ive spoke to him about this before and I just get the usual answers. 'it will happen when it happens'.Should i just move on and walk away, or see how things go. I want this to work as I really like this guy but he totally messing with my head.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2011): Well, I think you should take his approach on this. "It will happen when it happens", and basically just put the brakes on this whole thing before you get any deeper into it. You dont have to break it off entirely with him but take a step back and put a little distance between the two of you since you seem to be in some sort of a holding pattern with him. Do your own thing, and dont feed into him messing around with your head. If he is completely nuts about you then you will know soon enough. Life is too short to not expect the very best for yourself. Why settle for substandard when there is always someone out there who is willing to go the extra mile to be sure that you do feel loved, wanted, respected and needed?
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reader, ruby buttons +, writes (1 March 2011):
 He is messing with your head relationships are not this hard or complicated, go and be with someone who loves you and wants to spend time with you.
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