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writes:hello,i am 33 years old, married and had one baby.i am happily married to my husband for 7 years, he's a good provider, a good husband and father. Negatives: his work does not permit him to go home anytime, he drinks a lot, and i felt that sometimes i am not important to him at all.we live near his parents' home and it sometime sucks when he prefers to spend his time in a drinking spree with his father, which i really resented a lot.by now, i have learned to accept that this is my fate.however, just recently, i had known that a former college buddy of mine had a "feeling" for me. way back in college, i really admired him a lot. by the way, he is married also. i know, this sounds bad.we have been texting for several days and we opted to stop before we will be involved too deeply. he told me about his feelings for me and even if i don't want to feel giddy about this, i did. i hope this makes sense.. now, i am thinking of him, once in a while and thought of the "what ifs" and i miss him a lot. you see, we were very closed way back in college days. he's been so good to me...i had a bf back then, so he told me that he got chicken out in telling me his feelings for me...i just wanna share this coz it really makes me angry at myself sometimes, i don't wanna cheat on my husband, i love him so much but sometimes the distance just makes me do things i don't wanna do...thank you for having this site, so i could blurt out my frustration...i wanna be with my family but the call of temptation is very strong now...hope you could help me...thanks a lot...
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for the insights and advices, guys...at this point in my life, i have come to realize that my family is the most important to me.i will not trade them for anything in the world.help me pray that i would be able to resist temptations like this...thank you so much for helping me deal with this problem...
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2011): Dont go with temptation, its a really dangerous painful situation to be in especially if you do love your husband, believe me I know. If you are unhappy in your relationship work that out first work out what you want, what makes you happy are you giving and getting what you both deserve. Think about the relationship at hand first if it seriously has no future then change things but dont think the grass is greener while in a relationship if you choose to end the relationship with your husband then it can be thought about in the future with whoever, but right now believe me it just makes life a whole lot more complicated and upsetting. Be strong sort one situation out first. Good luck
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