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writes:Ive being txten a guy for the last month now. We txt all threw the day and he has being calling me a few times lately. We get on really well. I remember him from school but didnt know him to talk to. He is 21 and im 19. He works away from home and is busy with work. We keep arranging to meet each other but when the time comes it never seems to happen.Does this guy like me or is he just wanting someone to text?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2011): These texts are flirty and both chatty. We arranged to meet up to night but he said he was doing something else now. Im begining to think I am wasting my time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2011): There are alot of guys that will waste your time texting and chatting online and most likely do so with many ladies. It's a source of entertainment for them and an instant source of attention at the press of a thumb...ladies waiting in the queue who jump to give it to them. these aren't the type of ladies a guy would date b/c it registers as too eager and available even though they are receiving nothing from these guys.
In the dating world, texting and online chatting should be to set dates and in between frequent dates. Guys that use it as their only means of communication are not on a romantic pursuit..just the confirmation there are girls out there who want him who have nothing exciting going on but him. The girl he'll ask out is the one who will get bored after a few texts and not act so intense about him.
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reader, celtic_tiger +, writes (1 March 2011):
 Men are strange creatures when it comes to texting.
I myself have had TWO (!) experiences with men who like to text a lot. Flirty, chatty, all sorts. We are talking 10 + a day texts. Of course I took this as a sign of romantic interest. Turns out NEITHER of them had any intentions of the sort. They just liked chatting to me. I made a fool of myself on both occasions after making a fuss and asking what was going on and what they felt for me. Both men were equally shocked that I thought they had been interested in me! They couldnt understand why I had assumed that.
Unless there is solid face to face meetings and actions, texts mean nothing.
Actions always speak louder than words.
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reader, 209jess +, writes (1 March 2011):
hi.. if this was me i'd probably feel the same, are you both flirting in the texts or is it just general chit chat? i personally dont think a lad would waste his time texting someone he wasn't interested in... In my experience most men would only constantly text someone they are romantically interested in.. When you arrange to meet is he the one who finds excuses not to?
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