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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Known this girl for like 5 years, shes my best friend that is a girl, i have on and off feelings that i really like her however i have always had the back lying feeling that she was better than any other girl to me. Just now i really like her, however never known how she has really felt towards me, i get the feeling time has went on too long and and she no longer likes me in any sort of "love" way. We have kissed many times at parties etc however i like her more than just that and always have. I'm scared to say to her incase it wrecks our friendship and what weve already got together and i also fear that she could possibly like my best male friend. At times she also has a great laugh with me at other times she wants nothing to do with me, we used to get on better.I have no idea what to do and would really like to be with this girl however i need advice as i dont want the chance slipping away.
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reader, StarryEyes101 +, writes (1 March 2011):
 I think she already may like you. Why else would she kiss you at parties? I don't kiss my best friend and he's male. Although i'm not remotely attracted to him. (Even though people think we would make a perfect couple, neither of us feel that way) Why don't you bring it up? As a kind of a joke? Surely if you are best friends she won't treat you any different. Tell her that even if she doesn't feel the same way that you still want her as a best friend. Make sure you are alone so there are no distractions so you won't change the subject. Hope this helps
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