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My ex dated my friend and now that they've broken up my feelings for her are still there!

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Question - (1 March 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A male United States age 30-35, *ood91 writes:

One of my bestfriends just broke up with his girlfriend, who just happened to be my ex-girlfriend. When they first got together I didnt talk to either of them, I said some things I didnt mean and made what I realize now what was probably too big of a deal out of it, but I gradually came around with him and we became friends again. But I never talked to her, and she, made enemies with my frineds and family.

And when he broke up with her a week ago, she came to me that night thru txt to talk. It started off with her apologizing for she did to me, and by this time I had forgiven her. We started talking, about what happened with him and her, and before I know I'm starting to have these feelings stirred up again in me for her. We have been talking everyday, and even have talked about plans to hang out.

The problem is that everyone around me doesnt like her. My parents resent her for what she did to me, my best friend thinks she is nuts, and now the friend that broke up with her thinks that she is nuts too. And I dont kno what to do. I never really lost the feelings that I had for her in the first place, but I played it off like I did to help myself cope with what was going on. She agrees that there is still something there with us, and that we should just take things slow and see what happens. I just need some advice on what I should do?

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