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writes: I've asked for help before regarding ending a relationship with a third party but i never let it get easier for myself. the pain drives me to do rash things and today is one of those days.I still need a bit of help, he arrives tomorrow and today has been what seems like one of the hardest of my life, avoiding the temptation to book a train to the airport tomorrow. I have been texting him, asking to meet, he is so upset and confused and my partner is still listening and helping me through it. he feels i'm not mentally stable enough to make a decision (which I truly am not) I can't even work out what's honest in my mind and what's not. I keep imagining him here and that he and I could take on the world but at the same time I promised my daughter that I won't disappear again.I love my partner and can see things will work in time, but the arrival of the other person is posing a serious problem, i'm hurting, because i'm only in the early stage of getting over him. What if he contacts me when he's here and I'm too weak to say no? I've messed him around so much and i've hurt my family terribly badly but they are still by my side, I've also hurt myself so badly that I can't see right from wrong, nor good from bad anymore. Please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2011): I said this before: you have a second chance. Some cheaters do not get this.
If you go back to your lover don't expect forgiveness from your daughter or your common law hb. You have put them through hell already. Don't add to their agony.
Your lover (ex) is a grown man. He will get over this affair as well.
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