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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:So this girl I have been talking to for quite some time now had fallen in love. Yet she and her ex still love each other. Turns out for a while she was dating both of us. Me and the ex decided that she has to choose, we will be ok with anything she wants. We only care that she is happy, no matter the outcome. The ex use to be a jerk but I feel that after suck a dramatic event, he can change. Yet I want her because I know I would do anything in my power to make her the happiest girl in the world. I dont understand. She use to come cry on my shoulder or call me and I would lend a listening ear and comfort her pain as much as I could. She even wrote me a book, while dating him, to me, stating her love and affection towards me. She hates to hurt people, but me and the ex do believe she knows who she wants but does not want to hurt the other one. How can we help her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2011): You can help her by making it easier for her and moving on. You make the decision for her and walk away. That would help her a lot.
It would be the best thing for you to do. You see if she really wanted you then there'd be no confusion.
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