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writes:So this guy and I both know we fancy each other and have been friends for just over a year. We used to talk for hours, and get along ridiculously well and flirt every now and then. But it wasn't until recently that we both admitted that we liked each other, and there's so many reasons why we would work as a couple and i feel comfortable around him like i could be completely honest, and he's the same. Yet, I can't see us in a long term relationship, or maybe even a relationship at all?What I'm trying to find out is whether it's that situation where you both know you like each other and that's all there is to it? I'm stuck.....
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reader, Aunty Honest  +, writes (2 March 2011):
 In answer to your question...there is only one way to find out. But if you can just try and take things slowly and see what happens. Maybe it'll get to a point where you realise you can't bare to be "just friends" and then you'll know for sure. Maybe you'll try and it'll be wierd, ro not worth ruining a friendship. Just take things as they come and it'll all become clearer. From what I can see the only thing that would ruin it is rushing into a relationship and putting too much pressure on it to succeed. And you certainly don't sound like you're doing that!All the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2011): You've got to take things really slow. Discuss your dreams, and goals, and hope for the future together, casually. See if you like talking about those things with him, and how it makes you feel. Go see a movie together with some friends, and see how you acts around you. Do things together, with other people and alone, and see what the dynamics and chemistry are. If you like each other, you feel good around him, he displays good characteristics, and there is attraction, you get into a relationship.
This is where the trust part comes in. It can turn out wonderfully, or it can break your heart. But you'll never know unless you try. The beauty of love. Sucks, but its worth every minute.
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reader, StarryEyes101 +, writes (1 March 2011):
 You won't know unless you try. It may surprise you. Go for it i say. Hope this helps =)
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