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writes:please let me know what you think about my situation - any advice is welcomed.last night my boyfriend of three years broke up with me. he started university the other side of the country last September and we talk three nights a week to give him time to do his work.he says he still loves me and wants to be with me but cant because im too much of a distraction and he isn't getting any work done because he is always worried about how i am or what i'm up to.i thought if you love someone you stick by them and not give up - i still love him and would take him back in a heartbeat. we are giving each other two weeks apart and then we are going to talk - he says if he is getting more work done without me then we must stay broken up. however, if the amount of work he does doesn't change then he will think about getting back with me. i love him so much and am hurting. i want to win him back, what in your opinion is the best thing to do?
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (1 March 2011):
 His priority now IS and HAS TO BE his studies! We're talking about his future here - his ability to get and keep a good job when he graduates.
And what about YOUR future? Are you in college, or taking classes? Are you working? Equally important to think about.
Lauren639 is right: you need to go out and have fun, enjoy your friends, family and activities......(by the way, I think LDRs can and do work, provided you go about them sensibly......)
Don't pressure your boyfriend! If you do, it will only upset him, and you'll be even more worried and frustrated.....
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