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writes:when and why did you decide to lose your virginity? was there a particular event which set you off or was it a logical decision?did you regret losing it the way you did or still have fond memories of it? what went really well/really bad?and if you're reading this and you aren't a virgin, what are your fantasies?i try to avoid virgins. but i made a mistake^^ i want to make this as good as possible for her Reply to this Question
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reader, whiteelephant +, writes (18 October 2010):
whiteelephant is verified as being by the original poster of the questionumm..im not fishing. that sounds indirect and nothing about this isnt direct. im looking for first timer stories because i dont typically venture here. its one of the first things i say
anyway
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (17 October 2010):
 Me thinks thou doust protest too loudly. i.e i think you're fishing for first timer stories. If I'm wrong you may be living in a fantasy that is beyond my experiences. sorry.
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reader, whiteelephant +, writes (17 October 2010):
whiteelephant is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks a lot for the responses jen and anonymous. I've had ample opportunity to cheat during our first week but I've turned everything down..im red-blooded and antsy but i will never cheat.
usually im really dominant and throw em around but ill make sure to take special care to be as gentle as possible when it gets to that part
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2010): Why do you try to avoid virgins? You should understand that no matter if they had sex with someone before you or not that they must like you in enough to lose their virginty to you.
This sounds kinda slaggish but I was younge when I lost mine, I don't regret it, infact I'm still with the guy.
There was good things about it, and I still remember it clearly, but there was also bad parts to it. When a female first has sex they let out a little blood which can be a little shocking for them, but just take the time to comfort them, don't scare them and make them smile, she may be a little emotional, but that is just how some women are.
hope this helps :)
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reader, whiteelephant +, writes (16 October 2010):
whiteelephant is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni feel our society has weird social conditioning about sex and that virginity is overly-hallowed (it should be hallowed but not as much as it is). it carries with it a lot of weight i dont want to deal with, and virgins generally suck (or don't..:P) in bed.
im not afraid of commitment, which is what im doing now, but i am a fan of casual sex too
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reader, YouWish +, writes (16 October 2010):
 Why do you avoid virgins?? That's a weird statement. Is it because you're only wanting casual sex, or is it because you are afraid of commitment?
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reader, Jen1689 +, writes (16 October 2010):
 I lost my virginity when I was 20 to my now-fiance. I waited to have sex because it just wasn't a huge priority for me, and I wanted to wait for someone I knew I loved. I dated a bunch of guys who wanted to take it, but when I didn't give it up right away, they cheated on me within two weeks to a month of us dating, which made me realize that I couldn't just give it up to anyone.
I don't regret losing my virginity the way I did at all. I was perfect. He was very considerate and loving about it, and made sure that I was comfortable. The thing is, I gave it to him after not even a month of us dating, because I knew he was the one. Even if we weren't engaged, and even if we didn't last, I still wouldn't regret having given it to him. I was in love with him.
It did hurt, though, so be sure to keep that in mind for her. Be gentle and make sure to ask her if she is comfortable. Go slow and be gentle. Have some music going too, it helps with the mood of the whole thing.
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