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female
age
26-29,
*ollister_girl7
writes: So I have this guy friend (Erik) and we always flirt and He's an awesome guy. He is kinda mean to most girls but not normally me, Sometimes when were together he grabs my hands and stuff but it's only for a couple of seconds, He is SUCH a good friend, and is ALWAYS there for me, I don't know weather to tell him I kinda like him or not... Last nnight we talked about how I told him I liked him over the summer but that his friend(aaron) was trying to "talk" to me. I didn't want to talk to his friend cause he isn't a serous guy. So he said that he didn't wonna fight over me with his Aaron. but then Erik said that aarom won. I don't think he did, I think the Erik did. But I never replied to him cause I think that if I tell him that I like him him it's goin to be like every other girl and is just going to fuck around. I'm a mature girl , and I don't do just dumb relationhips, I like it to be serious. so what should I do, tell him or not?
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (17 October 2010):
Well maybe he didnt want to respond to your feelings during the summer for the simple fact is he put his friendship with this friend first before making himself happy, if two friends like the same girl it usually causes trouble therefore he probably just didnt want to respond to you.
Its completely in your court now if you want to tell him you have feelings for him. If you think that you can handle the rejection if he says no then go for it you only live once. And your only young so dont be worrying about serious reltionships you should be enjoying your youth.
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