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writes:hey.i cant get the thought out of my head that my girlfriend is sexually frustrated. i ask her all the time and assure her that it is better for her to tell me and to not worry about my feelings but she says everythings fine. how can you tell if a girl is sexually frustrated or isnt satisfied? we have sex proably 4-8 times a week but she dosent climax all the time. Are there signs?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2010): Im in the same situation, but i think you are worrying too much, my girlfriend hasn't gotten climaxed either... and i guess i suck in bed? but the main thing is.. if you love each other then don't worry cause love is what makes her want you. The only other thing you can do is talk to her and ask her to try things out and look stuff online for things that could make her climax and talk to each other about if it feels good or not. She loves you and won't want to hurt your feelings by saying you suck, if one day you break up she will use it against you but right now she's in love so don't bug her with that, if you feel you aren't satisfying her, then improve it, but don't dwell on it.. it will only make things worse. I've been with my gf for 3 years btw.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (16 October 2010):
 How did this thought get into your head ? I mean, you just did not wake up one morning and said " My gf is sexually frustrated ".
There must have been some signal that you have read , or more probably misread.
Was it something she said, or her body language, an expression on her face....?
If you are only referring to the fact that she does not climax every single time, don't worry at all, - she does not need to. Hard to believe for a man, but a woman can enjoy sex even without an orgasm.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 October 2010):
 Girls dont always climax every single time having sex and for some girls climaxing isnt always the best part of it so stop worrying about this.
You dont really mention why you feel she is sexually frustrated and why you are feeling like this so there isnt much to go by.
but am sure your girlfriend would be honest with you if she wanted different things so i would stop worrying about this and just enjoy your relationship.
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