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30-35,
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writes:For the past year, I've had this relationship with this guy. We started out as friends, and we flirted a lot when we texted and talked online. So he comes to visit one night, we kissed. Every time he came to see me after that, we would go a little further. So we had sex, and he didn't come to visit at all after that. He still talked to me, and we still flirted, but it wasn't as frequent and he basically forgot about me. He came over again, after we hadn't seen each other in months, and I tried my hardest to keep it friendly. He did at first also, but as i went to hug him I kissed him out of reflex. I laughed it off, because it was a reflex, i was in a relationship and was still in a relationship at the time, and its what i was used to. So we just hugged for a long time. We spent the next 2 hours just like hugging and talking and kissing, and eventually, it went further. That was at the end of September. Lately I've been having all these symptoms. I've been really tired, and i get nauseous, etc. I think I'm pregnant, but its still too soon to tell. I've heard its even too early to have symptoms. I'm just waiting, though i really want to know, and i'm kind of excited. And to top it off, the guy, continues talking to me, saying all this stuff that confuses me. He flirts with me, he tells me that he needs me, and he sent me a text with just a song, and the words to this song were very confusing as well. Hes talking to me a lot, telling me that he wishes i was with him, yet he has a gf. When were all in the same vicinity, he, his gf, and i, he acts so platonic, yet he texts me or talks to me alone and gets flirty and intimate. It kills me.I really do like this guy. I know guys can fake feelings, but he's getting more frequent with his expressions, and I just wish i really knew what he felt. I feel like the next week will decide what we are to each other, and I'm certainly tired of how we interact with each other. I need more and I'm sure he understands that, but i feel like he's confused as well. We like each other definitely but I really don't know what to do, or what to ask of this relationship.
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reader, daddylonglegs  +, writes (16 October 2010):
Hi there,
I feel the chickens are coming home to roost so to speak,
you cannot keep having your emotions torn apart for much longer.
You may have to sit down with him put all the cards on the table so he knows your true feelings about him, and find out his true feelings, then decision time, what the out come will be may not turn out what you want to hear, but you deserve to be treated fair
He may be using you or cannot make his mind up which one of you to give up.
Good luck, i hope other people will give you different insights on your dilemma
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