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writes:dear cupidI am dating this guy, we have been going out for a bout 2 months,and he gets along really well with my best friend. But at this time we are having a few problems and we haven't been speaking. But he decided one night to go out for drinks with my best friend,but i think there are feelings between them. should i be worried?
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reader, TimmD  +, writes (16 October 2010):
 I don't think they'd be going out for drinks together, alone, unless there wasn't something between them. I agree with CaringGuy that this is a warning. There may not be anything official going on between them, but this could definitely be the start of something if left unchecked...
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 October 2010):
This is now a warning. Get onto him, get speaking, get solving these problems. There could be nothing in this at all. But if you've got problems and you're not talking, naturally he's going to start going out. At two months, you should not be having these problems. Get talking to him, get this back on track.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2010): Unless you have a reason not to trust like he did something before, then I wouldnt be worried. However, combining booze and women in any regard is risky and I highly discourage its use, even if its a couple. Hopefully, things are okay. Good luck.
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