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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi ,I met a guy after i went through divorce and was very alone and insecure(2 year back). He had been in similar condition too. i feel in love with him. My conditions improved with time. He proposed me for marriage but since he proposed i am feeling nervous and anxious. I have many questions and doubts in my mind. I wants him to be with me but i dont want him to talk to me about marriage. Its creating difference between us. He has to get married because of his and his family circumstances and can wait long. Should i marry him ? What should i do?
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (16 October 2010):
 No,don't get married. Unluckily so many marriages end in divorce even when people are totally convinced about getting married- imagine when they aren't.
Also, too bad that he and his family need that he gets married shortly- but you can't marry someone just to be nice and do someone ( or his family ) a favour.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 October 2010):
Don't marry him. Marriage is a huge commitment, and must be based on a strong relationship where the only doubt is whether the bride will be on time or not.
You are just not ready to get married again, and you know it. For him to be trying to force the issue is wrong. Why can't he wait long?
Personally, with the way you're feeling right now, it would be a disaster for you to get married. You're not ready, and he shouldn't be forcing you.
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