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writes:Dear Cupid,I am 23 years old, College graduate, Full time job, own place.... and a virgin. Pround to be one.But at my age, a virgin is hard to come by. Throughout my life so far I had put finding a boyfriend on the back burner. I wanted to have my own before settling down, now that I have, I'm ready for a husband and family. I believe in waiting for marriage as god intended. No fear of pregancy, STI's, or HIV. I feel that finding a man similar to my age who is also a virgin or believes in abstance is nearly impossible. The world is all about sex and us virgins are ridiculed for being so, especially men. I know there has to be good men out there who are still virgins by choice (as opppose to guys who really wants to but due to being dorky or wierd has yet to find a girl willing to give then the time of day). Do anyone know where or how to find such a guy? Do anyone know of any websites, corums, group where virgins unite? Are there any virgins reading this now? Man or women. We chould def relate to each other, understand some things others cannot. Please help me out cupid, because I am sick of running into guys that wants sex first and a relatonship later. Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (20 October 2010):
You will find a guy like that. You've got to be prepared to work through guys who basically aren't like that. But like I said, if you're religious and such, then the Church might be a good option.
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reader, blackdelihla +, writes (19 October 2010):
blackdelihla is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know there are great guys out there who's not a virgins, but one who is willing to wait, not soo much. Finding a virgin past 20 is nearly impossible. But finding someone who is celibate would work. It's just every guy I meet wants ot needs sex and when I refuse, they leave, or I do. I refuse to be pressured into sex. Thats why I felt another virgin whould probably be best. I'm a one man type women, 1st and only and I would want a man where I am his last and forever if not his 1st.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2010): Male virgin over 30 here. Totally by choice. But I'm not religious. I just want to keep it within marriage. At my age it's getting pretty impossible to even ask a girl about virginity without the conversation turning ugly, let alone actually find another virgin Im interested in.
I think there are some celibacy forums on the net somewhere. Or there were at one time at least.
I would like to see a real virgin online forum like you talk about but I don't know if it would ever work. If there was a forum for meeting other people it would probably get trolled by too many liars. Sicko non-virgins who get off on deflowering virgins. Regretful non-virgins hiding their past history. Etc. I don't know how those dishonesty problems could be controlled.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 October 2010):
If you're religious, I'd suggest you try a Church, where you can meet people who'd believe the same things as you. But don't just discount guys who have had sex before. We're not all bad!
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