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writes: I'm very attracted to the female figure, especially very skinny/petite girls (this could just be admiration bc I myself struggle with weight, doesn't necessarily have to be sexual.) And there's this girl I work with who I swear I have a crush on. I mean, I look at the schedule to see when she'll be in, I fix my hair and make-up before she's due in, I think about what I'm gonna talk to her about before she comes in... it's weird. I used to say "well at least I don't really take it home with me, it's mostly just in the work place..but recently I've been dreaming about her!!! Like, intense dreams. A few nights ago I drempt that she was in a log cabin, and I came in and we were waiting on news regarding her health, and then I left and the next time I came in she was sobbing on the floor and told me the results were in--she has throat cancer! And we both held each other and cried..and then I went and got her something, I forget what. So I thought to myself, "well it's not like the dreams are sexual." Guess what...last night I had a dream that we performed oral sex on each other. I'm astonished bc I never have sexual dreams...not even about guys! I've always dated guys... I've never even kissed a girl, as some crazy college co-eds tend to try at least once... I sometimes fantasize about having a 3some with my boyfriend ... am I gay??
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (17 October 2010):
 You could be gay or else you might just be a little bit confused about this girl. Either way try not to panick about it.
You need to figure out if this woman has any feelings towards you before you act on anything, maybe contact a centre that deals with gay/lesbian feelings and talk to someone there. they will be able to give you advice on your feelings and you will be able to meet new people and let yourself figure out if you might be a lesbian.
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reader, charisma dela cruz  +, writes (17 October 2010):
 youre on the right age to know what exactly gender you are comfortable with. but listen to me, it might be harder for you to accept the real you because first of all you arent decided already what to choose maybe your same sex or opposite sex. i tell you learn to kno and love yourself first before you could find the right one for you. because by now youre still sailing between both gender. that complicate things around you and i think you dream about this girl you have sex act with, maybe because this person attracts you due to her personal magnetism that no one is exempted to be magnetized even of the same gender.
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