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writes:What do you call someone who doesn't want a relationship, and doesn't want to commit, but wants to be with you ALL THE TIME? If you're in this situation where you're stuck with this person, and you love her dearly, what do you do? She doesn't want a relationship but you do. How? Reply to this Question
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (16 October 2010):
 For lack of a better word, this is a sucky situation. You want something that clearly she doesn't, but likes your company enough for you to keep hope alive that she will change.
You can never change someone, and to be honest, you can not waste your time waiting and hoping. She has to make her decisions, and you have to make yours. I would suggest not hanging around with her, and telling her that it's not healthy for you to spend time with her knowing she doesn't want what you do.
You have to be firm on this, or you'll be stuck going round and round in circles and feeling cheated and helpless.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 October 2010):
 Well am afraid that if she doesnt want a relationship with you then you have just got to accept that and move on.
For whatever reason she doesnt want to commit to you therefore you have to decide wether you want to keep her in your life as a friend or if it hurts you to much then you need to decide wether it is best to stop hanging out with her and deal with getting over her.
Im guessing she knows how you feel well if she isnt going to commit to you then tell her you cant spend all the time with her because it is going to end up hurting you even more you are setting yourself up for a big fall i think its time you meet someone new.
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