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writes: Hi, this isn't a relationship question but i would really like some advice. I live at home with my mum and her boyfriend, my dad left when i was 5. Her boyfriend moved in shortly after he left. Ever since he moved in it has been hell, he is very violent to my mother and as i've gotten older i've taken a few bruises myself. I'm 23 now, so it has been this way about 17 years. I know she's not going to leave him, i've tried to make her see sense but she just gets angry so i don't bother anymore. I feel like if i don't move out soon i'll go crazy. I can't afford a place of my own so i'm stuck. Any advice would be appreciated.
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reader, Amr79  +, writes (16 October 2010):
 Dear I am very sorry that you suffer all of this for this long time i will claim that i know what you feel since i experinced the same royal treatment like this before in my childhood as well while i am a teenager and i did not had any choice but to continue with patience till i am able to depend on myself and get a job and now i am a new person please try to consider your plans to leave since from experience PEOPLE DO NOT CHANGE and for your mother may be she prefare life with some insults with this man than to be alone i am sure she knows how to handle him i only worry about you, i wish you all the best and soon your hard times will end since life have many faces and sure you can not have the ugly face of life forever and talking to some one and share your worries with some one will make it easier for you .Amr Adel(amr_adel2007@hotmail)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2010): Talk to http://www.womensaid.org.uk/ hopefully than can advice you what your choices are, and hopefully with their help you might get your mother away from him too.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 October 2010):
 Ok this is a tricky one. Dont blame your mother as she is under his spell and everytime he hits her he probably has her brainwashed that it is her own fault however he should never have lifted his hand to you and got away with it. You are 23 now so you are responsible for yourself if he hits you again then the only thing you can do is report him to the law and try and get your mother to see sence.
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