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*abriela1993!
writes:Well, my bf and I have been going out for a month and a half now. And everything, has been going quite well. Though, there is a problem, he wont kiss me when were having sex, or when i give him a blow job. I dont get it, is it me, he use to not be like this, could he have another woman??
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reader, Cccc  +, writes (17 October 2010):
 Yea allot of guys have issues kissing girls after blow jobs.Also if you give him one every time before sex he wont kiss you.This is a huge mistake though!Kissing is just a must in a loving relationship.Not kissing would be putting out the flame of passion and you will eventually disconnect in a sexual manner
Lust full sex = no kissing or avoiding eye contact.
Passionate sex = Allot of kissing and hardly ever a position where you're not looking at each other "Intimacy is always there".
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2010): You said he use to be different, like when? Its only been 45 days. Hard to say you two love each other in such a short period of time.
Its a different between being in-love with you and being into you. - don't think he's really into you and you're probably just a lay. He knows you been sucking others guys so he probably don't what to kiss you from the images he see in his head when he's with you.
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reader, valentine86  +, writes (17 October 2010):
some guys do not see sex as an emotional act. you clearly do. if you are feeling used or unwanted and it only gets worse with the sex you are having with him, that is not good. make sure that you are both on the same level in the relationship. are you both as serious about each other as the other is? do you both have the same ideas of where this relationship could go? if not, then he sees sex as one thing and you clearly have been seeing it as another. to put you at ease though, i do not think he has another girlfriend based off this question alone.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (17 October 2010):
 Ok dont think ahead of yourself here and think he is cheating on you. there could be a simple explanation.
Ok so in my honest opinion it does sound strange that your boyfriend wont kiss you through sex as this is a big intimate part of sex to kiss each other so you need to be honest with him and ask him why he is not kissing you.
Just sit down and talk to him and be honest with him tell him you miss how he used to kiss you through sex and ask him why he has stopped. Only he can answer your question as to why he has stopped.
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reader, Over..worried.  +, writes (17 October 2010):
 there are some guys that don't like kissing during sex.
You should ask him why not us. Or even try to kiss him and if he pulls away well you try say why not?
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