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writes:Q: 1i need help. i love my girlfriend so damn much, and yes i will admit i have fucked up a few times for example during the beginning of the relationship i had looked at a few girls and made some comments, it has now been 6 months since Ive done anything like that but my girlfriend constantly has crazy emotional outbursts for it and breaks up with me just to come back to me 30 mins later to say she never meant it. If i catch my girlfriend lying about something or doing something wrong she just brings that stuff up and goes mental to flip it, she might just randomly bring it up when everything's good and hang up and not talk to me for a while and uses it too play the victim what can i do because this is bringing me down,and making me very upset, i cant leave her though i care about her too much.Q: 2hey.i cant get the thought out of my head that my girlfriend is sexually frustrated. i ask her all the time and assure her that it is better for her to tell me and to not worry about my feelings but she says everythings fine. how can you tell if a girl is sexually frustrated or isnt satisfied? we have sex proably 4-8 times a week but she dosent climax all the time. Are there signs?
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reader, Ven  +, writes (17 October 2010):
2: She isn't sexually frustrated, she is frustrated period. Sex is a part of your relationship that ties into the rest of it. It is easy for a woman to be pleased when she wants to be.
If she is mentally/spiritually/emotionally satisfied by you, it will be very easy to satisfy her physically. If you are working hard to keep the rest of her being happy, sex can help with all 4 of them.
If she is unsatisfied by you, sex can help her get past that. If she gets really unsatisfied with you, the sex can suffer as a result. So, if your sex is suffering, instead of talking about your sex life, you should discuss the rest of your lives. That is where the frustration is coming from.
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reader, Ven +, writes (17 October 2010):
1: She sounds like she needs a break from you. Nothing permanent, and nothing that requires blame to be thrown around. I think both of you would benefit from a period where you weren't contacting each other, to help put both of your feelings and emotions in perspective.
It is something that will help her. You may feel like you need to be there to help her, but just like a child you have to let her grow or she will never change.
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