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writes:hello guys, i really need every single advice and feedback fron you guys. my LDR gf of 2 years and i finished ( we couldnt meet within this 2 years for some reasons ), coz she just disapeared for over 4 days and got bk tellin me that she doesnt need a bf anymore, even though that girl loves me like crazy or atleast thats what i thought , i mean it was crazy , one day she used to tell me how crazy she is abt me and then the very next day she just feels like she doesnt love me anymore :S which is crazy , im frickin inlove with that girl , she means the world to me . we didnt tlk for the last 4 days :S she just didnt show up online again so i guess we re done . i tried to do some things in order to get over her , i went with some friends out , had some girls , i even slept with a girl i picked up from a club just for the sake to get over my LDR girlfriend but its not workin :S im crazy about her , we even had plans to get married and we even had a name for our baby :S i mean we were so close and spoke abt everything , i just dont get why she would just wanna leave me like this . she got bk after the 4 days and she told me that she was with some1 else durin that time , but belive me guys , i know her so much to even doubt that shes cheatin on me. shes jst nt that type at all . i dont know why shes doin this to me but i dont see myself without her at all. i dont even imagine her kissin some1 else !!!!!1 and i havent kiss her for over 2 years now and then some1 else will just get her after me and do everything with her !! its freakin me out . i think i made a mistake by beggin her to get bk to me , i was tellin her how much i love her and how much i need her , but she was so bitchy to me she never spoke to me like that :S i dont know what to do anymore,i just want some ways to get over a really hard break up , like the love of your life ,thnx in advance Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2010): Bro What u have been going through exactly same crap happen to me..
i had same ldr from 3 years..all things as u said. loving her mad..she disappered for 6 months and didnt even tell me a word..and then she came back..all of a sudden..and then now she again disappered..its hard...i felt like killing my self..but u no wat never trust a woman..they act very nice and cute but in reality they stab you..well my advise is just to move on..thats the reality..its not be easy but ..time heals every wound..and u r better off someone who treats you like crap..cos thats what gona happen in future too believe me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2010): ok,well,i won't tell ya to just get over it(like hell that'll happen quickly,right)I know exactly how you feel.i know i'm a kid but i like to help people with their problems and give them advice(it's fun and it makes me feel good) i'd suggest that you should just try to keep yourself as busy as possible(not saying that you should sleep with alot of girls)but like find a really awesome and new hobby and just stick eith that.secondly,avoid all contact with this girl.honestly,i don't even know why she did what she did.women can be very fickle sometimes like were goo goo gaagaa over a guy one minute then we're like 'go away!' the next.don't tell her how much you love her don't beg her to take you back.that's a huge no-no.just try to focus on YOUR life for now and completely shun her.STAY AWAY FROM HER.she'll start to notice and MIGHT start asking about you after a while,if not then find another because it's obvious that it's not you it's her. she doesn't appreciate you at all man if she's being a bitch to you and misusing you like this.so yeah just friggin ignore her and see what happens.
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reader, Ven  +, writes (17 October 2010):
The best way I found to get over someone who was a large part of your life like that is a change of scenery.
When my first engagement went down in flames (I was 22 and had known her for 15 years), I was a mess. She was my best friend, the only person in a small town that I would hang out with. I only knew people she introduced me to.
I moved. I needed new experiences with new people and new places to rattle my mind free from the hold she had on me.
I tried a very different job than I was used to, went to different places to make different friends.
It worked, but it takes time. So be patient, and don't let yourself make stupid mistakes in the meantime.
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