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female
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*ichew08
writes:Me and this guy i have been talking to have been friends for 4 years. im now a senior and he just graduated marine corps basic training. he came home last weekend and is leaving next tue. When he came home from basic training i decieded to tell him how i felt and i found out that he felt the same way as i have since we met. Problem is that this all went down over text so i couldnt tell his exact reaction or exactly what he means when he writes to me. I've been trying to put an effort of being supportive of him and understanding that hes very busy since he joined but he can never seem to find anytime to spend with me. Ive asked him about 3 times and he just doesnt seem to put an effort in trying to see me. I try not to get upset over it but we have such limited time to see each other before he leaves. He's even starting to take a long time to text back. I dont want to be possesive and question him all the time and be dependent on him but, he never seems to communicate well. I dont know what to do. Im willing to try and make this work even while he's gone. I want commit to him. Ive even gone out of my way and taught my self and asked people how the military works. I plan on calling him tomorrow and straight up asking him whats going on, but ive asked similar questions before and i dont want to sound repetetive. Is it that he trully is busy and cant find time? or does just not like me as much as i like him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2010): it seems like he isn't as into you as you are into him. otherwise, he would be making an honest effort to at the very least, talk to you on the phone rather than text. it seems you are the only one making an initiative in this situation. its unfortunate, however its better to get that out now than to waste time wondering or missing out on other opportunities that are bound to come your way.
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