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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I feel my paranoia is getting the better of me and it's ruining my relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for just over 9 months now and it' been absolutely brilliant with her. The thing is, I have trouble with paranoia. * I'll say now that this is a long distance relationship but she is coming to live with me soon * We are both young, m... (405 words)

I lost my best male friend 5 years ago but I still miss him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my male best friend haven't spoke to each other in about 4 to 5 years. We were very close for almost 12 years, and I loved him so much. We would tell each other everything. We had even kissed a couple of times but we never had sex. We had talked about being together a ... (406 words)

Do I break up with him when I go away for the year?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I think I need some advice. I’ve been going out with my boyfriend for the last two years and he’s the only guy I’ve ever been with. Thing is I’ve been fantasizing all along about sleeping with other guys. My boyfriend is almost perfect, he’s really sweet and loving, gets me ... (194 words)

Am I gross? OR was the guy just not nice?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

4 May 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hi, I recently hooked up with a guy and whilst we were in bed fooling around he took off my pants, then he stopped and was like ew, so I asked what's the problem and he told me "your vagina is gross". I've had my confidence knocked by it my whole life and now I really feel li... (143 words)

How do I attract guys without completely changing who I am?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Most of my best friends are very attractive and are constantly asked out. I on the other hand have never been on a date. Truthfully I am no a very small girl but I'm not completely overweight either. I am also know as the hippie girl which some guys find cute while other... (73 words)

I told g/f I'd be home at 7, but came home 2 hours later. I screwed up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating my girl friend seriously for about a month. Last night I told her I was on the way home from the bar with the guys at 7pm. Long story short I didn't show up till 9pm. She had told me she was cooking dinner for me and seemed fairly excited...... She wa... (112 words)

My family doesn't like this boy but I do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im 14 and i really like this boy and hes 17 my sister knows him and my mam dont know i like him and he likes me allot but my mam dont think its right for a 14 year old to be with a 17 year old i really dont know what todo hes lovely and wouldnt do nothing with me. jus... (79 words)

Why would I dream of cheating on my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I had the strangest dream last night and i was wondering did anyone know what it meant lol I cheated on my long term serious bf who i adore and love and i would never ever cheat on, with a guy from my past who i never liked or had a connection with in my bf's place of work... (92 words)

Why do I have feelings for this other guy but love my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - well i am a freshman and i am 14 years old going on 15 anyways i have a boyfriend and we have been together for about 7 months and i really do like him but he is a real dick like i wanted him to come out in my 15 and he said he didnt do 15's and plus for valentines day he ... (160 words)

Does my ex still love me? Advice would be so much appreciated here...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my uni boyfriend over a year ago now, but we've stayed in touch. We had been together for about 2 and a half years and looking back, I think breaking up was hasty. I did need to do some 'work' on myself (which I feel i now have) and there were a few issues, ... (525 words)

I'm married, she's married!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

4 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have a female friend that ended up telling me she is attracted to me and she really likes me. She is an attractive woman and I do like her and her personality. We hang out every weekend with our neighbors. The only thing is I'm married and she's married. I'm coo... (163 words)

I wonder if when we are older, things might work out between us? We just broke up but stayed friends.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I'm just looking for a bit of advice on my current situation. I broke up with my boyfriend over the weekend. We are/were at university together and had been going out for 5 months. During this time we have had lots of arguments, some minor and silly, some more... (823 words)

I want to trust him but I can't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and about 2 months ago i found out through his friends that he had slight feelings for this other girl, who is meant to be his best friend. He told me he loved me but had a 'soft spot' for her. I got so angry and depressed I ... (158 words)

Should I write a letter telling him how I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been trying to tell my friend how I feel about him by saying it online because I'm very shy and don't want to say it in school. I told him that I like him and other things like the way he's been distant is hurting me. Would he be offended? I'm always totally honest with ... (84 words)

How can I trust someone who keeps important secrets for our whole entire relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my girlfriend for 7years. We had our ups and downs. She's kept a secret from me for 7years and finally wants to come clean 1st strike. She drilled me hard about sites like myspace and etc. I stopped using them. Come to find out she has a facebook page after all ... (203 words)

Do you think this girl and I are right for each other?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3285 days ago

4 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I wanted to ask whether this girl and I are right for each other. I think we are. I'd like some more feedback before I make a move. I care about this girl so much that the though of rejection petrifies me. I want to be as certain as possible that she has feelings for me. ... (421 words)

Why does he not talk to me but try to make me jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy had this huge crush on me. We're 16 (year 11). He used to show all the signs (staring, glancing, copying, imitating, stands closer etc.) and I showed signs back.He shows few signs now. We used to flirt with each other all the time but now things are different kinda. We ... (207 words)

How can he be so selfish? We only just broke up and he's already hanging out with girls!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How is he so selfish? We seriously JUST broke up,he JUST dumped me. And he is already hanging out with girls. How do I know this? Facebook..I know I should stop looking,but I can't help it. We were together for over a year,I can't just shut him out of my life completely..:( He ... (139 words)

I don't see my internet boyfriend enough in real life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) age 36-40 - hi i met this guy in a chat room about a year ago,we both felt something special,we kept talking everyday and we made a deal to meet first in person to decide where our relationship can go,so we met and it was cool and he became my internet boyfriend... cause he lives a little... (134 words)

Did my boyfriend get my colleugue pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 8 years cheated on me with one of my close co-workers at work, all three of us work together. And we have hung out together on the regular. But now the girl is pregant she's saying its 50-50. she not sure who the father is? I don't know what to do? I'm not sure ... (65 words)

When she says she loves me, does she mean it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

4 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So my girlfriend and I have been dating for a while now and I feel like I have been putting a lot of effort into this relationship and I feel like she doesn't put too much into our relationship. I give her a lot of attention, and yet I don't get a lot back... Like I love her, ... (289 words)

Good sex with unloving husband!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in love with my boyfriend of a year. I have never felt like this about anyone else - not even close. However, i have been married for ten years and have two children. My boyfriend is married too. We knew each other for two years before we started going out and were in love ... (530 words)

Is he masturbating over girls we know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - about a month ago I was on my boyfriends computer, and while i was typing in an web address a porn site popped up, as one he was looking at recently. So I looked at his history, i know i probably shouldnt have, but i did. i wanted to see what kind of porn he was watching. while ... (266 words)

Implant is making sex unenjoyable!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I have had the implanton in my left are for 8 months and I thought it would be a great type of protection except well I've lost all feeling down below and I mean everthing!:( oral feels lik nothing to me and I can't feel him inside me wit condoms , we have tryied without and ... (125 words)

Is this engagement legit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, Ive been with my bf for 4 years and got engaged at chritmas but my dad swears my fiance never talked to him about it and my dad thinks its just a promise ring...if thats not bad enough we want to get married next october... i will be done college this december and wil... (136 words)

Was my dream trying to tell me something?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I'm a lesbian teen and last night I had a sex dream about my best friend. In real life my friend knows that I'm gay. So in my dream my friend was seducing me and I was trying to get her to stop because I told her that she was probably just confused and that we can't do... (146 words)

He's giving VERY mixed signals!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I lost my boyfriend a few weeks ago and my best friend who I thought liked me is playing me. He plays me by acting all nice and then he says that he doesn’t care about my texts or what I have to say. Then the next day he smiles and he does look at all my texts. I know that ... (168 words)

He's always there for me but I don't love him...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for a little over 2 years now, He is sweet and wonderful and has been there for me through a lot during our relationship.(My brother died in a car accident, my parents divorced a and my grandpa died and he never left my side during any of it) I ... (227 words)

He dumped me because of his friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There was this guy back in highschool, who I really liked. But I knew that we'd never be together because he didn't see me that way, if you know what I mean. He was really interested in a friend of mine, and even when she told him she wasn't interested he never gave up hope. ... (367 words)

I've been hurt and I think he's taken...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been single for quite a while now and there is this new man in my life, we've been talking for 2 weeks. We've kissed twice and everything is going great. I'm too scare to continue because i've been hurt and i don't think i can go any further with this, besides i think he ... (79 words)

How do I satisfy my bi-curiosity?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

4 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - OK so i have recently decided i am very much bicurious. I really want to try sime stuff with a guy but i have not got any bi or gay friends. i really do not know how to approach anyone at all. I did discuss the situation with one of my female friends. She understood me bu... (187 words)

How do I get her to back off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

4 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i need some help on how to deal with a very annoying problem. i work at a restaurant and there's a girl who comes in very often and hits on me like there's no tomorrow. the problem is she is only 16 turning 17 (she is extremely attractive for her age)and i work with her older ... (227 words)

My boyfriend is selfish with sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

4 May 2010 (M) age 36-40 - I'm a 23-year-old gay guy, and I've been with my partner for over three years now. The one major problem in our relationship is lack of sex. My partner never touches my penis, never gives me a handjob, never gives me a blowjob, and never let's me give him anal sex... ... (163 words)

Didn't want to fall for him, but I have!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so I've been with my husband for 8 years but these past 4 months I have been having an affair. He has a girlfriend, but is nit happy. We agreed at the start that it was just gonna b a bit of fun. When we meet it is generly just a physical thing, but he txts and calls ... (191 words)

Do I make him feel guilty or pretend I'm fine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ignore the age, I'm actually 17. I need some advice, I have this friend and I love him but somehow he really doesn't seem to know. About a week ago I slept with him and then he said not to say to anyone what happened to avoid scandal. He is quite happy to move on as if no... (232 words)

Having a hard time forgiving myself

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently had a foursome with a woman and two men that I am not in a relationship with. However, I am in a relationship with another man whom I love very dearly. I am 20, and have always been happiest in relationships, as I've only been single twice in an overall span of 8 ... (805 words)

I want to give him my virginity but there's a problem..he already has a gf!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 19 and i found a guy that i want to lose my virginity to. We have been together for a month and i feel 110% ready. The problem is that he has a girlfriend on the side.... (38 words)

Ideas of what to do in bed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i have this friend i have know forever we went to school together. We lost touch after high school and have reconected again. She is happily married and I am divorced. She is in an open marriage and I have been with her husband several times. Once she even joined us which was ... (148 words)

Dating an ex of a friend..is it too weird?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so basically i have this friend who used to go out with my high school best friend around fours years ago. He has basically kiss the group of female friends and slept with one and for the past year he has been coming over (as friends in the beginning) and then recently ... (261 words)

I'm scared of throwing away someting really good, but why can't I commit?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm scared of throwing away the best thing that has happened to me but on the other hand I'm not sure if I'm 100 percent committed to this guy. We been together a few years now (not living together), we live a couple hours away from each other. The relationship has been going ... (241 words)

We fight every time husband's ex wife calls!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age - I am having an issue with my husband's ex wife. They have kids together and I understand that they have to talk about the children. I don't like the fact that she calls him at work and he calls her from work or when she calls him at home, he does it when I'm not around. He said ... (157 words)

Am I falling out of love? Or just trusting him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im ten weeks pregnant. been with my boyfriend a year and i guess we fell madly in love. i use to nag him alot, question him and didn't trust him, and always wanted him by my side. then i opened my eyes and realised i couldn't keep doing that, so now im very fair with him and ... (141 words)

Can't enjoy sex until she's tested and I wear a condom.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (M)

- I love sex but nothing spoils the mood more for me than when she suggests we do it without a condom. I instantly lose my hard-on and it's not getting back up after a comment like that. I don't want to get an STI. I trust her but how can I trust the sexual history of the p... (258 words)

He had sex with another girl! will he hurt me again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, i was with this boy for around a year and a bit, when i discovered that he had had sex with another girl. I was devastated and he was heartbroken that i had found out and that i was hurting inside. he tried everything he could to make things better but it didnt work out, ... (146 words)

I'm afraid I'll never be happy with anyone!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - dear DearCupid, I am 21 years old and have never been in a healthy relationship. my last relationship was with my ex boyfriend who only used me and lied to me about his wife who had left him and who he still lived. he also got someone else pregnant just before we met and... (194 words)

Mom found out I was having sex and now I can't go to the prom!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So my mom found out that my boyfriend of 5 months and I were having sex, and she asked me if I had sex with him prior to her find out and I told her no. When she found out she was upset and broke my boyfriend and I up, she claims she's mad that I didn't tell her. My mom will ... (132 words)

Haven't had my period in 3 months but test say I'm not pregnant

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - hello im just wondering if anyone has any good advice for me because im a bit confused,i havent been on my period for 3 months now but ive had a lil spot of blood an thats it but because i have gynaecology problems theres only a 2 per cent chance that i could possibly get ... (111 words)

How should I handle his rude behaviour during our long distance relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in this relationship for about three months already. We used to be at the same school so we get to see each other everyday. Those were the times when i felt like I was really valued so much. He would bring me home everyday, we talk on the phone for long hours, w... (354 words)

I'm interested in my husbands sexual interests but he hides them from me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have two kids, so I'm always tired or busy and my husband works 8 hours a day. It seems like we can only have sex when the kids are a sleep. If we don't have sex almost everyday than he'll watch porn when I go to bed or if he gets off work early and I'm not home because I ... (341 words)

Now he wants to leave a change of clothes at my house! What does this mean?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age - Been involved with a man now for more than 3 yrs and just recently when he came over to see me asked if he could leave a change of clothes at my house and even asked me if would wash them for him. This something totally out of the blue because the whole entire time I ha... (113 words)

I want out now! How do I leave my husband with no job or money?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - how do i leave my husband with no job or money,he is a drunk,we have 2 kids together 6 and 7,he is very mentally abusive to us,he has no job because he got fired from a rally great paying job due to his substance abuse, he does nothing around the house and i have just let ... (108 words)

He wants to go to Amsterdam with his mates yet we've never been on holiday!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend of three years blurted out after being asked a week ago "I've been asked to go to Amsterdam for three days" i asked why he has only just told me this and he replied he didnt know how i would act. He has not had a job for ages and can never hold a job down. He hasnt ... (173 words)

Do I stay single or give him one more chance even though I don't really think he's cute???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and just had my first boyfriend. I broke up with him over the weekend (we dated for a week) b.c I was unsure of what I really wanted. In the past, I've kinda hooked up with guys thinking that I had a chance with them. I've always wanted a good relationship and hated ... (251 words)

Am I wrong to say no regarding this job?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband wants to work for a taxi company and I won't allow him. I told him to find a different job because when he was with his first wife he worked for a taxi company he liked a female driver. He would buy her things, follow her a lot but not as a stocker but also keep in ... (81 words)

I still have feelings for him... should I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I broke up almost a year ago. I am still close with his family. I have feelings for him, but I can't tell if he does for me. He flirts with me. Should I tell him how I feel? I don't think I will have much to lose. ... (56 words)

Girlfriend doesn't want to meet my ex wife.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend of 10 months is the love of my life. Both of us are divorced with children, all of whom are the same age. I recently moved in with her and things are great: kids are happy, we're happy. The one thing that is eating me up is that she does not want to meet my ex ... (213 words)

Wanting to watch the girl I love have sex with another man, since I can't.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

4 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl online that I really liked and we fell for each other and it is all completely amazing, we are pretty both always searching for a way to talk to each other and I am soon gonna move to where she lives so we can be together. But the problem is, we both have sex... (289 words)

What did he mean when he said I should 'depend on him more'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend asked me the other day whether i depend on him or not, i said not really, i mean my definition of depending on him would be sticking to him, and being needy about everything. Then he said that he should depend on me more? I dont really understand what that means, ... (67 words)

I'm paranoid about people using me! How can I get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I,m very anti-social. and I dont like goin out to pubs or drinking. It all started when i started secondary school i was bullied coz of my weight and My glasses. I was even used as a prank by I boy. He said he fancied me and stupidly I believed him and he told me to wait for ... (126 words)

Me and my ex still love each other but we cant be together! help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have broken up. We were together for 7-8 months. The reason we broke up is because he got a job in the mines and it wasn't a sudden decision to break up we did a lot of thinking and weighed out the pros and cons for each outcome. In the end my bf (or ex ... (309 words)

How do you mend a broken heart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - *** HOW DO YOU MEND A BROKEN HEART? I have found out my boyfriend has been constantly lying to me about various things and has been cheating on me when he swore on his childs life that he hasnt. For weeks he has denied this and made me out to be paranoid, always accusing me of ... (141 words)

I'm worried if I leave my boyfriend for his best friend I will ruin their friendship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend, a guy, and we kinda liked each other since 2 years ago but he didn't make any kind of improvement and signs to make this more serious and so I kinda flirt with his best friend too, at the time. And so, I'm now in a relationship with the best friend. A fe... (161 words)

Is this depression or just life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Am I suffering from depression because I don't want to go out of the house and I can't see the positive side to life anymore --- or is that just life?... (31 words)

Why do I not love my wife for who she is?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - why do i not love my wife for who she is. i ask her to change the this that bother me but she dose'nt... (25 words)

How can you make the jump from being friends, to more than friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have got a friend that I like a lot, and I know she hasn't got a boyfriend! Can I have some ideas please on how to make the jump from being a friend to being more than friends?... (40 words)

Why have I lost interest in sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i really need some advice. i'm 19 and i've been with my boyfriend for two years. i love him so much and he makes me so happy. the thing is, i'm just not sexually interested. we don't have sex a lot of the time, but when he wants to have sex, i always just feel i'm not ... (152 words)

How can I deal with our differences?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I have this guy who is 13 years away from me and I’m really finding it hard to cope with our age differences. I will only be turning 16 while he’s at his 29th this May. This’ll be kinda long and I hope somebody out there can find time to help me. I’m not used to having f... (928 words)

My girlfriend lost her virginity to another guy while we were on a break!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2764 days ago

4 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, Well me and my girlfriend were both virgins, well I still am and we have been going out for 4 years. We were waiting for a right time for us to be together before we actually do this and we both agreed. We both love each other so much. But recently we hadn... (341 words)

Could I be pregnant after a drunken fumble in a toilet?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Could I be pregnant or am I being stupid I AM NOT ON THE PILL OF ANY FORM OF CONTRACEPTION I am normally a very sensible person but I was out on friday night and my best friend got me very very drunk, I was dancing with this really nice guy and before I left he pulled me i... (314 words)

Could I have an STD even though we were both virgins?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - OK so me and my boyfriend have had sex- multiple times and of course we've been safe about it but also ive given him oral too and i know for a fact that he was a virgin (like me) before we had sex and we both never participated in 4play before each other and now i have a sore ... (105 words)

Two friends, too friendly?

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4 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - [Moderator's Note: OP's own title] She's female. I'm female. We're friends. I get a certain feeling from her. I don't know if it's a mutual attraction or what! A vibe anyway! But when she and I are out together and have alcohol taken, we both hold hands, hug non-stop, and... (114 words)

I went through my girlfriend's phone for a second time, and I have been hurt yet again....

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4 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - This may be a little long... but I have a lot to get off my chest. But here I go. The first time I caught her, we were doing a little rocky. We have been falling in and out for a bit over a year now. First started talking back in summer of '08. I am practically livi... (1009 words)

I am very jealous of other women around my boyfriend but I am curious about having a threesome! Would it be a bad idea?

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4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So iv been with my bf for 4 years we have a beautiful son and a really strong connection. were completely in love. Now about ME I am a super jealous babymomma. i have suspicions of somethings i think he might have done while i was pregnant but since our 1 1/2 year old was ... (216 words)

How do I get over my fear of kissing and touching? It is holding me back from getting into a relationship!

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4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, heres the thing. I like this dude(I'll call him Fred). Well I think I do. I cant stop thinking about him. I dont really want to get into a relationship because I freak out about the whole kissing thing and the touching. I really dont know how to get over it. Its holding me ... (189 words)

Should I keep dating him?

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4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for 1.5 years. We usually get along really well and spend a lot of time together. However, we fight quite often, and especially lately. Our last fight wasn't too long ago and we were almost going to break up. However, every time we're about to, ... (299 words)

Should I not go to the party just to avoid my ex?

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4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my ex over the phone and I know it was a bad thing to do but I found out he immediately went back out with his ex which is fine by me. The only bad thing is he avoids me and my best friend is friends with all his friends but him( she doesn't like him)and his ... (147 words)

What can I do to help my sister in her unhappy marriage?

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4 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i sincerely need your help. Its concerning my eldest sister, she's been married for almost 2years now, but marriage for her has been hell. On several occasions due to quarrels, he throws her belongings outside and changes the locks of the house, this is so painful cos she ... (102 words)

How can I make my boyfriend feel more needed?

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4 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing my guy coming up to 4 months. We're a lot closer now than we ever have been. I had been on my own before him, coming up to 5 years (apart from one 10 mnth relationship nearly 2 years ago) I love him, but i haven't told him yet. He hasn't say ILY to me eit... (874 words)

Should I stay with him for the sake of the family or move on?

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4 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm with this man I have a 2yr old child with him weve had an on and of relationship as he chooses to leave and come back when he feels like it. He's left me for up to 6 months twice he says he wasn't with anyone else but I don't believe him. Now whem he's here I hate him I ... (246 words)

I just cant break up with my boyfriend even though he is very abusive towards me

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4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my boyfriend and i have almost been together for 2 years. I love him more than anything and am head over heels still sooo in love with him. He used to be like this with me in the beginning. I have been through tons of serious relationships but this one is different. My ... (489 words)

Is it normal to feel this way after a break up?

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4 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Missing my ex, and trying to remain friends.... My bf and I broke up almost 3 months ago. He is the nicest man I have ever dated. He is going through a lot of family problems, and, I think he just couldn't deal with both the drama at his family, and trying to maintain a relat... (651 words)

Men please HELP me!

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4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So for every woman,the universal face of charming, is george clooney. Men that are "smooth" seem to wisk us away and make us go head over heals. For men, who is that? What is smooth for men? what qualities to men find charming in a woman? What makes a woman smooth?... (52 words)

How do I shake this feeling?

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4 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, i and my boyfriend have been dating for 3years now, we have a very good relationship, but i cant stand it when girls look at him flirtyly, its obvious they like him, he seems not to notice them, but it makes me nervous. How do i get rid of this feeling?... (53 words)

I want to have sex more often with this girl and I'm confused about what she really wants from me.

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4 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - a friend of mine (whom i dated in high school for a whole month) and i have been seeing each other off and on for a couple months now. we've had sex twice. once when we were drunk, and once after a nice sober night at my house. lately though she's been fairly distant. we've ... (155 words)

How do I make him mine ?

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4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - It all started in high school, everyone has said he is a player but for some reason I couldn't help but like him. We like a lot of the same stuff n can sit n talk for hours. He makes me smile just to get a text or be by him. We finally ended up sleeping together 2 years ago ... (205 words)

I really liked this girl, and I'm tired of seeing girls leave

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4 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently got out of a relationship and met up with a girl I had a huge thing for in high school. We hadn't talked for six months, but I learned that we both had just gotten out of relationships, and that we still had pretty much everything in common. I've always knew this... (383 words)

I don't feel like I'm good enough for guys I like

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4 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - SO I wanted to do something different... well let me first start off by saying the story: Guy in my class, we are friends, he's a bit shy in that he doesn't initiate things, but i always catch him constantly looking over at me (my friends notice it too), avoids me (like not ... (303 words)

Pregnant and sexually frustrated

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4 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am pregnant and my baby's father dont want to have sex with me. I dont wont to go outside the relationship and have sex with someone else. My hormones are about to explode. He dont understand how I feel and he wont give in to me and have sex. Im tired of masturbating. I ... (69 words)

Baby's father walked out

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4 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My baby's father walked out on me and I am 25 weeks pregnant with our daughter. We were doing fine he was taking me to my appointments, coming over spending time with me, talking about moving into a place together etc. One night I got mad at him because I wanted him to say he ... (435 words)

Her mother is going to decide our fate

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4 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a junior in high school. I am 17 and I really like a 14 year old. She says she really likes me back, and we've known each other for over 6 months. However, her mother is the obstacle standing in the way. I met her mother by coincidence and she was greatly impressed by me, ... (243 words)

Crush on my sister's ex-boyfriend

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4 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so in summer of 2009 I told my sisters ex boyfriend that I liked him. Well he didn't think of me the same way but thought it was cute. Then they got back together and I think I still have a "crush" on him. Help on what to do? And please don't say you have to stop right ... (68 words)

1st date nerves!

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4 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i understand most of the important things to a first date, and often get the kiss at the end of the night. My problem is during the date i never know whether to hold hands, put my arm around my date whilst we are at the cinemas... etc So i was just wondering, how do you girl... (74 words)

My husband may lose his life, should we try to have a baby?

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4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, :) ok.. Uhm well you may know from my previous question that my boyfriend has 2 cancerous grade 2 brain tumors and im scared to death to lose him. Well... We both know he may die but we alao know we were made for each other. Yes im only 17 and my boyfriend.. Well soon to ... (135 words)

How do I initiate oral sex? I've never tried it before

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4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend very much, and we've been dating for quite a few months. He's given me pleasure (not sex, Im a virgin) and while he's had oral sex with another girl before, I've never given it or recieved it before him. I still havent given it, and I am wondering how to go ... (85 words)

We're both virgins, for multiple reasons

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4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so, I'm a virgin and I have been dating this guy for a while. We are both virgins and while sex is not an immediate thing in our relationship, I have wanted it at times (as I am sure he does too), but we have not as of yet for multiple reasons. But, I have a few concerns: ... (210 words)

Is it too soon to move in together? My parents disapprove of her

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4 May 2010 (?) age 36-40 - OK so I'm in a relationship with this girl. She's beautiful, funny and in my eyes amazing. Recently I introduced her to my parents, and it didn't go well to say the least. They completely dissaprove of her. Why? Because of the age gap. I'm 19 and she's 27. Apparantly, according ... (208 words)

He's controlling and the sex isn't too great, what do I do?

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4 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have this boyfriend, and he's the sweetest boy ever. We've been together for 2 years and, hes yet to cheat on me, and is the "ideal boyfriend" However, hes very controling that it makes me not want anything to do with him. Also? The sex isnt that great. What do i do ?... (54 words)

What should I do? Never have anything to do with Italy again!?!

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4 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i and my husband lived together 5 years, before we married, i met a guy in Italy and had 2 ONS together. i told my husband this before we married, for him it's something definitely immoral and he disgusts about, but he still love me and be with me after that. during the foll... (425 words)

I might be reading too much into this

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4 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello all, I am gay, and I am having a dilemma. I've searched so many websites, and they all have the same answers for my question. After not finding anything different on the websites, I figured it'd be interesting to receive real opinions from real people.What are some sig... (199 words)

In love with a friend, but it's delicate and I need suggestions

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4 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm new to this site, but it seems like it has a pretty active community, full of helpful people. I'm curious to see what other people think about a situation of mine. I have very strong feelings for a friend of mine. If it's not love, I'm not really sure what love could ... (830 words)

I have herpes -- am I just wasting his time?

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4 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i have a dilemma. i just met a guy yesterday and i really like him. we hit it off and he asked me to dinner but im afraid of going at all because i have genital herpes, and i feel like i just have no right to even go out with him at all, like im wasting our time. how to ... (105 words)

My husband has a very low sex drive. why?

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4 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Problems in bed. My husband And I have been married for 3 years now. We dated for at least 2 years. during that time we had the best sex ever. He was my first. I love and respect him with all of my heart. We have a 2 year old beautiful daughter. For the most part we do get a... (312 words)

Should I ask her to the concert? My ex is her good/best friend!

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4 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm really into this girl. Theres a concert coming up. I'm planning to buy the ticket then invite her to go. But i'm not sure if i should do it or will she go with me. The reason... I just broke up with my ex about 4 months ago. My ex is one of her good/best friend. The... (112 words)

He hasn't finished his education, and this is driving a wedge between us!

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4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 19. We've been dating for five months. We are inseperable, we are best friends and very much in love. But in the past, all I've dated is low-lifes, guys that deal drugs, guys that don't go to school. My boyfriend has made a BIG effort to change... (364 words)

Tony wants me to talk more, and Mike likes me! Help!

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4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I hang out with a small group of friends(names changed of course.) Mike, Tony, Chris, and my cousin Sara. Well, Tony and I have been talking about going out and he's considering it, but the other day Mike, who is a year and a half younger than me told me that he likes me, I ... (243 words)

It's been almost a year since he told me to wait for him to get back on his feet!

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4 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i been with my boyfriend for 10 years he's 30 im 34. I have 3 children which he help raised. He doesn't have children of his own. He always work and help me with the bills. in 2006 he started dealing drugs went to jail for 4years I stood by his side bought a house so he can ... (118 words)

Concerned because the "butterflies" are gone!

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4 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend now for three years. We have lived together for the last two years. He is a very sweet person and an excellent boyfriend. We get along great and hardly fight. My concern is that the "butterflies" are gone.Also, I go through phases where I do not ... (93 words)

How do I stop doing this, and if I'm going the right way to handle it?

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4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so, heres the deal, I have an amazing boyfriend, hes not perfect, but he perfect for me. I have really bad self eestem issues, and i feel likei have to bring up every thing me and other boy talks about to him, to make him jealous so you know, he will try harder, and want em ... (133 words)

How much time should I wait for him to text me?

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4 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I just met a guy through a friend, and we talked for a bit then in the end he asked for my number. He texted me the day next. We chatted. Then I texted him 2 days after. We chatted. That was yesterday. The question: I'm wondering how long I should wait for his... (155 words)

What can I do to fix our friendship?

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4 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I am currently 15 in high school. Right now I like this girl and she likes me too but for a couple of days I have been thinking that she is lying to me and probably never liked me. So I ask her if she had every lied to me and she says she doesn't. But I am also becoming ... (143 words)

How can I build confidence to ask a guy out?

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4 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have never had a boy friend and i really like this guy. we were really good friends, then his ex came back to him but they are now split up. i don't have the confidence to ask him out. what can i do to build my confidence??? Help ! ... (52 words)